reallyconfused2542 Posted April 24, 2011 Posted April 24, 2011 k she said that she wants space and to take things slow but shes still talking to me. thats a good thing right? i mean i have had my times of weakness where ive thrown all my feelings to her but im gonna try and leave her alone for the most part. but if i say that i want to do something with her this summer and shes says that shes up for it and still conversing back and forth is that something positive? women confuse the hell out of me:)
Beaten_down Posted April 24, 2011 Posted April 24, 2011 Well sorry to hear she wants space, As that is never something that you really want to hear. I can tell you from my experience that the worst thing for you to do right now is keep smothering her with I love you's. She is having doubts and the more you do that the more you will push her away from you, Not really sure how you should handle this. Other then give her the space and stay strong, Try not to read into everything she says or does as hope. I have done that and it only causes you emotional pain.
GrayClouds Posted April 24, 2011 Posted April 24, 2011 k she said that she wants space and to take things slow but shes still talking to me. thats a good thing right? i mean i have had my times of weakness where ive thrown all my feelings to her but im gonna try and leave her alone for the most part. but if i say that i want to do something with her this summer and shes says that shes up for it and still conversing back and forth is that something positive? women confuse the hell out of me:) No it is not a good thing because what your hearing is you have a chance but what she is saying she is moving one but she is going to keep you on the hook to she does not feel bad about it and have a back up plan. Go full NC and unless she show up on hands and knees saying she made a huge mistake and is 127% committed to making a relationship with you work then stay NC and focus on healing. It is all about you now.
Author reallyconfused2542 Posted April 27, 2011 Author Posted April 27, 2011 can i tell you something. i think thats prob the best advice ive gotten. thanks. would you mind reading a few of my posts from tonight and give me an opinion on them? i might have had an epiphany or i might just have gone crazy
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