nineyearsgone79 Posted April 24, 2011 Posted April 24, 2011 Hey Guys! I was just writing here so that I don't do something i'll regret and write or text my evil ex.. . Basically I've been doing ok.. long story short ex broke up with me sept. 09.. in an email after 9 years. He gave me no explanation etc.. pretty much told me to move on and to not contact him. All calls went unreturned and all emails were ignored. I had no one to turn to and had to start things anew. I'm now 32 and pretty happy. However, tonight I logged into my facebook and one our our mutual acquaintances posted photos from his sisters wedding from oct. '10. This was the same wedding he had invited me to before dumping me. Anyway, after he dumped me I had heard he was hanging out a LOT with his sister in law who had a boyfriend too. Anyway, literally they were carving pumpkins on halloween and going out on dates to diners he took me too within DAYS after him dumping me. I wasn't positive if they were REAL dates or what.. the sister in law was also blogging about them. Anyway.. I only speculated they were dating but was never 100% sure.. not that it matters i get that. I just found the whole thing disgusting and really disrespectful to what we had. He just didn't flinch an inch .. never missed me 1 second ya know? Anyway.. saw some pics today of them being kissy kissy at that wedding I was suppose to be at back then. I guess my assumptions were indeed correct. I guess they dumped their people and decided to get together within DAYS of dumping a girl he had been with for 9 years. Huh.. man it is sooooo hard for me to not text or email him. I'm really happy I didn't end up with someone like that. I just feel cheated and that I dated some guy who always said he wasn't a typical guy guy..he seemed nicer, kinder, sweeter, loving, caring, etc. I so badly want to text him.. "wow u sure moved on fast.. that's a little slutty of u both."... but anyway i know it's pointless. I HAVE moved on mostly 85% there I'd say.. but wow how do u shed this kind of disgust and anger. He's just GROSS.. sister in law really?
dragonfly22 Posted April 24, 2011 Posted April 24, 2011 Don't text him. It will just show him that you still care and give him an ego boost. Forget about him, he is SO not worth it.
poorguy Posted April 24, 2011 Posted April 24, 2011 You broke up in Sept 09? Whatever you do do NOT send him a text. Sounds to me like some old feelings and hostility are coming out. That's normal even though it's been a while. Just relax and decompress. That intial anger you are feeling will subside very quickly
Author nineyearsgone79 Posted April 24, 2011 Author Posted April 24, 2011 Yah you guys are right. I'm not sending it.. that's why i loveee this site... It keeps you from making a further fool of yourself. I know it's been quite a while.. but the end was so shrouded in mystery and he blamed me for it ending...when in reality he just met another girl and was to much of a coward to be a man and tell me that. : /
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