Love_sohard Posted April 23, 2011 Posted April 23, 2011 I feel like somebody punched me in the gut. I found out my boyfriend of two months had been sleeping with and communicating with his ex girlfriend and mother of his child for the last several weeks. He had been acting strange and a little distant for sometime now but whenever I would ask him he would have some lame reason such as the fact that he was scared of getting too close to me because I might move and leave him or that we didnt get to spend enough time with each other. When he would call me after a night of drinking he would say things like "I am so confused--and indecisive" well now i know what it all meant. She wrote me a facebook message yesterday telling me that he was telling her that they were going to work things out and that he loved her. Meantime he was also doing the same to me and kept telling me how much he loved me and wanted to be with me. She said if I had any doubt she was telling the truth, she would be happy to meet with me and show me the text messages he had been sending her its so hard because I asked him over and over again to reassure me he wasnt going to go back to his ex . They were together for a long time and have a child with each other. I have never dated a man with a child and so it was hard for me from the get go to think of him having to see her all the time but I figured that was impossible to get around. I tried, I was there for him, I Loved him through his confusion and issues about us and now I find this out and it leaves me reeling. I wrote him a text basically telling him to go to hell after I found out and he denied everything and basically tried to turn things on me. In a moment of weakness I texted him while crying at 2AM saying "I love you--how could you do this to me?" I just am having a hard time understanding how people can be so cruel and manipulative. How can people play with hearts so easily? It hurts big time. I dont know how to trust again..and right now I just want to curl in a ball and cry and cry
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