Hopeless Girl Posted April 23, 2011 Posted April 23, 2011 I think my exb is datin a girl and I wanna ask him so bad I dont care if it'll ruin everything cause he told me he wasnt gonna date anybody that he needed time for himself to go to therapy.. I wanna ask him and I know I shouldnt... Tell me what to do!
ginastar Posted April 23, 2011 Posted April 23, 2011 Guys always lie. If you ask, he will prob lie...so whats the point
Author Hopeless Girl Posted April 23, 2011 Author Posted April 23, 2011 To seek closure... I mean I know I shouldnt be waiting for him but those little text messages and stuff just live me thinking.... i just want closure if he is dating.. but Im not sure and I wanna ask him
Kilty Posted April 23, 2011 Posted April 23, 2011 But will it give you closure ? It's more than likely not to and only kill you inside ? Obviously we are all human beings and our curiosity gets the better of us but lets face it - if anyone's ex is going to date after a break up there is absolutely nothing you can do about it. I've read that it may be a good thing as if its a rebound then it wont last and the ex will compare partners and realise what they had. Personally in my experience thats bollocks though as she moved on within weeks and their marriage will take place only after a year of dating. All that said - I'd probably try and find out if i was you too even knowing its the wrong thing to do
Ajax Posted April 23, 2011 Posted April 23, 2011 Guys always lie. If you ask, he will prob lie...so whats the point Yes, as a guy I can admit, "we always lie." Actually, come on. Guys don't "always lie" any more than girls "always lie." And to make that claim does a disservice to your point. The fact of the matter is that people often lie during a breakup to try to make themselves look or feel better. It happens all the time. It's not right to do, but that shows their character. Keep your dignity and don't ask him.
geegirl Posted April 23, 2011 Posted April 23, 2011 If you've broken up, that was your closure. What he does after that should be none of your concern. Now that you are not a part of his life, what he does is his business and you should not pry, unless he tells you. People break up and ultimately date again. Besides, whether you know or not, does it change your situation with him? No.
Recommended Posts