plano Posted April 23, 2011 Posted April 23, 2011 Anyway where I go to school is a rock climbing wall. I once met and converesed with an attractive younger student. I thought the first time we chatted she was flirting with me. She was asking about me, what I did, etc. She told me her name and I told her mine. BTW she works there as a spotter (or whatever they call them, they tie the rope around themselves and stay at the bottom so you essentially dont die). Well I went back two days ago and she was there. I made sure I climbed with her and we talked for a while. Everything was going well. Well I just had to ask her out!! So when I was through I knelt down where she was (she was kneeling and texting) and asked her if she would like to do something sometime. She looked up and asked what I meant. I told her just go do something. She then told me she was "talking" with someone right now but as a friend we could maybe get lunch. Right after she said that she took some climbing shoes that were left out and disappeared for several minutes in a back room. I got my phone and met her when she left this room and got her number. She really didnt say anything else and then disappeared into the backroom again shortly there after with more shoes. I texted her that night and told her I would pronounce my words better for the future (I am from a different region of the US and pronounced some things differently which she found funny) and she texted back five minutes later with "lol nice". I do believe she is "talking" with someone. When me and her were climbing a guy came up next to her and asked her if she heard from "him." She said she hadnt and then proclaimed that maybe it was over. So she is talking to someone and their future..who knows. I must say that after I got the ok she didnt seem to enthused about us exchanging contact details (as she just disappeared). As a friend or whatever surely you would need to be able to contact with each other. I am really not interested in being freind zoned and want to make it clear we hould date. Alas, whatever happens (maybe I will never contact her again) I am just proud I asked her out. I dont do it that often (despite being told I am very good looking) as I am just shy. What should I do? Any ideas?
BiscuitXOXO Posted April 23, 2011 Posted April 23, 2011 Good for you for taking the initiative! You should do so more often XP I think the girl was just being friendly though. People who work in the service industry usually are. Asking about someone is just a way to make customers feel more comfortable. Mild flirting is also common in getting business. After all, it worked on you since you came back! Shred/delete her number and do it again on another girl. Eventually you'll land a date!
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