Marianis Posted April 23, 2011 Posted April 23, 2011 So i was in a long distance relationship for 3 years… we could see eachother just every 6 months cause we are in school still and it was our only chance. He lives in Canada and I live in Mexico he was the guy of my dreams and we had a lot of communication. After 2 years I kissed someone else here and told him later it was the worst thing I have ever done. He gave me another chance and after a year everything was ok. I went there last December to see him and his family and I loved him more and more everyday. I wanted to have a family with him. To have a future with him but then 2 months ago he broke up with me. since then ive been trying to get him back. I was saving money to go to Canada and see him this easter but I asked a friend of him what he thought about it. He told me that it wasn’t a good idea because he has someone else already. My ex told me he is not dating her that he is just going out. And he need time to think. But im here crying everyday and wondering what happen with us. I truly love him but every time I try to talk to him or know about him he is all mean. Or just not that interesting. I don’t know how he could become someone like that. I love him. And I keep beggin him to be with me again. I know that is not good. That I have to wake up and move on. But I cant! .. my life without him is just not life at all… and what happen to that future I wanted to have with him!?.. I wanna be strong. I have been going out with my friends to forget about him… but I cant and I don’t understand why he is like that with me now. Im tired but I really want to have what we had before. He was my everything and I can not forget about him. I do want to but cant. What can I do!? HELP ...
chelsealeigh Posted April 24, 2011 Posted April 24, 2011 Try giving him sometime, maybe something happened that he is not sharing and just needs some time to think, I do not knowhow long this has been going on but after a three year relationship, you must love him. As hard as it is, give him the time and space that he needs, and hopefully he will come back. If not (knock on wood,) things happen for a reason and the situation will make you a stronger woman.
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