sunnydayze Posted April 23, 2011 Posted April 23, 2011 so its been just over 4 weeks. weve spoken about once a week the first few weeks, just over breakup stuff.i havent spoken to him for just over a week now. im missing him so much. i keep just getting the urge to tell him i want to work things out and try again. but i know its just going to completly set me back to square one. ive been doing soooo well, going out with friends everyday, keeping myslf busy and generally in a positive mood. it just feels like this last week things are getting harder, im wondering whether hes thinking about me at all...i was with my friends last night and decided to go home early cus i was feeling a bit down, really not in the mood to do anything today either, just want to sit on my own and grieve sorta... i know i have to pick myself up and get on with things but just for today i think i will allow myself to be sad, ive been trying so hard to be positive and its tiring.. im going to have to see him soon, after easter hols are over all my friends will be hanging out together often...sigh i hope it doesnt set me back...
Fufu Posted April 23, 2011 Posted April 23, 2011 Don't be too hard on yourself. Sometimes unexpected unpleasant things happen to us, the thing is you need to be strong and to look forward to your life. Don't bother or mind what he's feeling. He is he, you are you. Thinking over how he feels and thinks will only make you even more confused. If you don't want to see him, you don't have to force yourself to see him.
Author sunnydayze Posted April 23, 2011 Author Posted April 23, 2011 its not really a case of forcing myself..we have the same friends and i want to show him/everyone/myself that i am strong enough not to hide away from him. i feel like im letting myself down today by just being really miserable..
Fufu Posted April 23, 2011 Posted April 23, 2011 In this case, you are forcing yourself. You move and be strong is only for yourself and not to show him or anyone else.
Katt22 Posted April 23, 2011 Posted April 23, 2011 Don't feel bad about feeling bad. Breaking up is more than the loss of just the relationship, its the loss of plans and hopes and dreams. Its a lot to digest. I know it feels like if you let yourself feel sad about it, its going to undo all the work you've done to move on. But you have to let yourself grieve a little bit, the key is not getting stuck in that place for too long.
Author sunnydayze Posted April 23, 2011 Author Posted April 23, 2011 yeah...thats why i kinda just thought id let myself mope for today, and get back onto it tommorow...
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