I'm insanely .

[ConfusedAmerican]

Ok, the title seems to be wrong. It's supposed to say "I'm insanely confused" but idk.

 

Basically, I met this girl at a party a few weeks ago. She is really nice, funny, smart and good looking. I spent most of the night talking to her, I got her number from her before she left and she told me to text her so we can see a movie soon.

 

So a few days later, I text her asking her if she wanted to see a movie, and she replies asking when. I tell her that whenever she's free will be fine for me. She says Sunday would be good, but by the time Sunday rolled around we didn't actually do anything, because supposedly she thought I meant the Sunday afterwards.

 

I felt pretty bad afterwards, because I felt she was lying. I had no clue why she would, so I was pretty confused, but I let it go and waited patiently until Sunday.

 

By the time Saturday rolled around, my buddies and I wanted to have a gathering to say goodbye to our friend Samantha, who was going to Germany for 3 months on an exchange program. It was pretty small, but the weird thing was that the girl (Who's name I forgot to tell you is Jess) was there, as it turns out she was a good friend of Samantha.

 

Anyway, we started drinking quite a bit and everyone got pretty drunk. I started chatting to Jess privately for ages, I was completely off my face and so was she. We'd first been talking about normal things like school, family etc, but it started getting deeper. She then flat out told me she wanted to make out with me. I'm a guy with morals, and I knew she was drunk, so I said no at first. I asked her why she never replied to my text, and she said she was nervous because she liked me so much, and didn't think I liked her. One thing led to another, and we made out.

 

After a few hours we had to take the girls home, so we went with them to the train station. By then I'd already sobered up, and it was time to say goodbye to them. She came over for a hug, I went to kiss her on the cheek, but then she moved in and we made out again. She smiled and turned and left with her friends. I left feeling elated, but also felt like I'd exploited her.

 

The problem is that I REALLY like her, and I've been told by her friends she likes me heaps as well. And the only times I've really spoken to her or her friends are when they've been drunk, so I don't know what to do. She's on a brief holiday at the moment and won't be back until tomorrow, but I'm so confused.

I don't know if she genuinely likes me or not and it's confusing me heaps, although I've been told by many people she does. What should I do? Text her? Call her? It's making me feel awful because I felt there was a really big connection and I like her more then any other girl I've ever met.

Advice? By the way, I'm only 15.

Edited April 23, 2011 by ConfusedAmerican

[utterer of lies]

Call her when she's back and set up a date.

[ConfusedAmerican]

I don't want to sound desperate though. It's just the fact that she was really drunk when we made out, it's really annoying me thinking about it.