rocketboy9 Posted April 23, 2011 Posted April 23, 2011 A few weeks ago I asked out a woman I was friendly with. I had thought we had clicked but got the speech about being friends. I was disappointed but was ok with it. There was no friction and everything was cool. The problem is that she wants MORE, a LOT MORE emotionally. I thought it was going to be light/loose and just casual friendly. She wants to share intimate personal emotional stuff with me. I am wondering if this is whats going on - she is getting her emotional needs met by me and meanwhile her physical needs are being met by someone else. In other words she gets everything on her terms or am I wrong? I could see this turning into a huge problem for me - here I am involved with a woman who wont date me and I get to know she sleeping with some other guy. Am I off or what?
Lilmisus Posted April 23, 2011 Posted April 23, 2011 You're just a friend to her. There to talk to about different things and different guys. She's not attracted to you, so nothing will probably come from it. I'd stop while I was ahead if I were you, and tell her you're not interested in only friendship with her.
xpaperxcutx Posted April 23, 2011 Posted April 23, 2011 When a woman friendzones you, they have no problem telling about their sex life; you're basically one of the girls, if you catch the drift. You're obviously not comfortable listening to her about " humping" a guy, so obviously you cannot be friends with her.
somedude81 Posted April 23, 2011 Posted April 23, 2011 Run, far, far far away. She's just a parasite now.
Author rocketboy9 Posted April 23, 2011 Author Posted April 23, 2011 I know I am a friend to her and am fine with it. I dont have any delusions about that. I dont understand what she wants from me. What do you mean a parasite?
dispatch3d Posted April 23, 2011 Posted April 23, 2011 just don't talk about the emotional crap you don't want to talk about with her. Tell her you are uncomfortable talking about such personal stuff. End of problem.
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