reallyconfused2542 Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 ok so here i go we were together for about a year sometimes rocky but she felt that i was her soul mate and that we were meant to be together. my problem was that i have a very hard time showing emotion and would leave her hanging when she would say i love you or do you think that well be together in the future. I really don't know why i did that only maybe i thought that it made me look weak in her eyes , who knows. about three weeks ago i started feeling her pull away and knew that something was going on with her. we sat in the car one day talking about it and she said that she needed some space and time to figure things out. im 31 and she's 21. she says that she couldn't deal with me not showing the emotion and all that. so once that happens i realize that im going to be losing her if i don't try and show this so i turn it around and start telling her i love you and that i know that were meant to be together and all that stuff. i really do mean it and regret not doing it from the beginning and that it took this to make me show her. so long story short i start texting her, not obsessively, but in the morning and nights telling her how much i love her and want to be together forever with her. she's having a tough time seeing me and wants her space to think. i guess my question is how long do i wait for her?i know all the feeling are still there for me that im the one for her and that well be together forever. and if the only thing was me not showing emotion how am i supposed to show her that i want to do it for her if i can never see her? is asking once a week ok with no other contact besides asking to see each other ok? this has really affected me more than i thought it would, the not eating or sleeping and wanting to constantly text her and show her that i am capable of being that guy who can show emotion. i guess that the hardest part because in my texts i put it all out there for her to read, everything about how i felt and what i wanted in the relationship. another thing is that i was supposed to go away with her and her family in a few weeks. how do i broach that topic without sounding pushy. we were supposed to go together and then go on and travel some more after that. do i wait a week or two before i ask? again all of this is new for me and right now im obviously in the desperation state of what do i do. any help or advice is greatly appreciated
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