dressing up Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 It would be good if my guy friend split with his girlfriend. If by then, we see each other again, maybe he and I will have a shot at the relationship I thought we were meant to have. Is that bad thinking? Anyone else thinks this way secretly?
Author dressing up Posted April 23, 2011 Author Posted April 23, 2011 No one else thinks like this? :eek:
Duckduckgoose Posted April 23, 2011 Posted April 23, 2011 No one else wants to admit to it. There is a guy I gamed with a few times, HOT AS HELL... sweet... holy **** he would be the perfect man. But I was married at the time as was he, and his wife was preggers. I got to meet his wife a few months after I met him and I was thinking in the back of my head "She's ugly what the hell is he with her for... she's like a 4 and I'm an 8 he should get with me instead". When my exH left I would think about this guy sometimes wondering when its gonna go south with HAH and his wife so I could move in and get on some of that. Horrible thoughts but I just let them play out so they would go away.
Author dressing up Posted April 23, 2011 Author Posted April 23, 2011 No one else wants to admit to it. LOL. I meant just harmlessly fantasizing about it, not like actually driving a wedge between the couple and make him yours. There is a guy I gamed with a few times, HOT AS HELL... sweet... holy **** he would be the perfect man. But I was married at the time as was he, and his wife was preggers. I got to meet his wife a few months after I met him and I was thinking in the back of my head "She's ugly what the hell is he with her for... she's like a 4 and I'm an 8 he should get with me instead". When my exH left I would think about this guy sometimes wondering when its gonna go south with HAH and his wife so I could move in and get on some of that. Horrible thoughts but I just let them play out so they would go away. Yep, no harm just thinking about it if you don't do anything harmful about it. I genuinely would like to be there if and when my guy friend breaks up with his girlfriend on their own terms.
Duckduckgoose Posted April 23, 2011 Posted April 23, 2011 In a case like that I would have to back out completely so I wouldn't step in and make a mess.
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