OCCDAVE Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 Well back track last night i hung out with the girl who loved to club.Long story short we talked few hours didn't really click and have yet to hear from her owell.Today i went on the date with amy who was also a big sports fan like myself.I was worried cause up untill then calling seemed to have stopped unless i was the one calling and texting was here and there.We had to wait a bit for our food cause there was a wait but we begin talking.I kinda called her out on the whole texting saying sure would be nice to get a call but she said shes shy on the ph . I figured then shy on the ph this was gonna be a silent night but she was talking up a storm but i inserted myself to so it wasn't one sided.She mentioned her finger hurt so i held it but only for a moment was trying not to overdue it.Kept playing around with her hair and even like moving it from side to side i read somewhere thats suppose to be flirty i took it as she was bored lol.I said at the end of the night i'd like to see you again she said definitely. So my next move should be what:o
mo mo Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 The next move would be to take up the role of a plumber and then lay down some pipe.
Author OCCDAVE Posted April 22, 2011 Author Posted April 22, 2011 Maybe its just to late or whatever but what do mean by that
mo mo Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 You never heard that expression?? hahahaha anyways its time to man up. You have to show some raw confidence, like you really want her. Don't leave it up to her to steer the direction of this little thing you got going. MAN UP
Author OCCDAVE Posted April 22, 2011 Author Posted April 22, 2011 Gotcha here i was thinking you were telling me go fix a pipe lol.i was thinking bout later today texting or calling this Hey i had a great time how about we grab some food Saturday She told me today shes going saturday to watch her nephew play his first t ball game so with that in mind should i ask.i was gonna ask for next friday anyway our fav team plays go watch them but i wanna see her sooner lol
Author OCCDAVE Posted April 22, 2011 Author Posted April 22, 2011 Grr well i asked for saturday she said she would be busy.the week is hectic so our next outing will be friday. Im not gonna lie dont wanna seem needy just wanted to see her sooner
carhill Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 So, how far apart do you and amy the sports fan live? Also, when you asked for Saturday and she was unavailable, what was the tone of her response? Presuming next 'friday' is the sports team date, what was her response on that? IMO, I'd continue to pursue other potentials and allow things to happen organically. Enjoy 'dating', rather than focusing on any one person. Presume the ladies are doing likewise. IME, they are.
Author OCCDAVE Posted April 22, 2011 Author Posted April 22, 2011 Her tone seemed ok but for next friday she was like ya that sounds good.like i said last night we laughed alot and had a good time.she told me yesterday she was busy so i shouldnt have been shocked.im meeting up with another girl kerri tonight.just feel a week is to big a gape.
NoMagicBullet Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 Her tone seemed ok but for next friday she was like ya that sounds good.like i said last night we laughed alot and had a good time.she told me yesterday she was busy so i shouldnt have been shocked.im meeting up with another girl kerri tonight.just feel a week is to big a gape. I don't think a week between 1st and 2nd dates is that unusual. This was a 1st date, right? Besides, you've got another date with another girl before then. Heck, you have dates with three different girls in the last three days -- you're doing something right! Try not to analyze it too much -- hard to do, I know. Who knows, you may click more with Kerri than Amy. Good luck on your date tonight!
mitchell Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 Tell her how much you love T-ball games. If she invites you to her nephew's game, your in great shape. A fun outdoor activity lasting only about 90 minutes. She'll be impressed. Possibly even invite you back to her place. The two of you should be in bed hooking up before dinner.
carhill Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 OP, customarily, when one likes spending time/interacting with someone, they like to do it more often. Each person processes that like in their own way, in both what 'spending more time' and 'often' mean. If the times spent are mutually enjoyable and lead to a relationship/friendship, that's nice. Regardless, the time one spends, time one will never re-live, being fulfilling and enjoyable is the primary focus. If things work out, they do. If not, not.
Art_Critic Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 Did you kiss Amy goodnight after holding her finger ? just trying to gauge the the energy of your date...
Illiandra Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 Tell her how much you love T-ball games. If she invites you to her nephew's game, your in great shape. A fun outdoor activity lasting only about 90 minutes. She'll be impressed. Possibly even invite you back to her place. The two of you should be in bed hooking up before dinner. LOL mitchell, in bed by date 2 ,,, wow
Author OCCDAVE Posted April 22, 2011 Author Posted April 22, 2011 No kiss just a hug when i got there and goodbye
2sunny Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 No kiss just a hug when i got there and goodbye you should have kissed her. next time do that.
mitchell Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 LOL mitchell, in bed by date 2 ,,, wow This guy is obviously a confident, fast mover. He did hold her finger during the first date.
Art_Critic Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 No kiss just a hug when i got there and goodbye A kiss is better than a hug but a hug isn't all that bad for the kind of get together you had... Just go with the flow and if you see an opportunity for the kiss take it...
Art_Critic Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 This guy is obviously a confident, fast mover. He did hold her finger during the first date. Do you have some helpful advice for the OP ?.. just curious..
Kamille Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 Good job asking her out. She told me today shes going saturday to watch her nephew play his first t ball game so with that in mind should i ask.i was gonna ask for next friday anyway our fav team plays go watch them but i wanna see her sooner lol Grr well i asked for saturday she said she would be busy.the week is hectic so our next outing will be friday. Im not gonna lie dont wanna seem needy just wanted to see her sooner You knew she was going to be busy on Saturday, so it isn't a surprise she is busy on Saturday. Don't overthink this. Just go with the flow.
Author OCCDAVE Posted April 22, 2011 Author Posted April 22, 2011 I was thinking.about saying hey your not gonna invite me to t ball gm.reason im iffy i forgot to mention shes got a son who will be there so maybe i shouldnt
Kamille Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 I was thinking.about saying hey your not gonna invite me to t ball gm.reason im iffy i forgot to mention shes got a son who will be there so maybe i shouldnt I vote nay. Don't do it. Way too early to meet the son.
Author OCCDAVE Posted April 22, 2011 Author Posted April 22, 2011 This guy is obviously a confident, fast mover. He did hold her finger during the first date.i didnt say i was a fast mover i also held her hand but briefly
Flgirl44 Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 The next move would be to take up the role of a plumber and then lay down some pipe. best comment in the thread hands down.
Illiandra Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 best comment in the thread hands down. i agree best comment.. plumbing is always good especially on date 2 actually, from a girls point of view, just take it slow, it seems like your reading too much into this. in the begining stages of dating its easy to get caught up and think lets hang out as much as possible or what are your plans etc for the weekend. slow and steady wins the race
Author OCCDAVE Posted April 23, 2011 Author Posted April 23, 2011 How bout the lack of talkin and if we do its over a text red flag?
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