SmileFace Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 The women are more like laughing AT the male strippers and making fun of them and are grossed while the GUYS at strip clubs have their eyes closed and are like really into it; like they are having sex. Women don't get like that; they are just laughing at the male strippers. They are not intent on "getting off" and having an orgasm while guys are strip clubs are. You know Patrick? What rock do you live under? WayneBrady?
J200 Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 You know Patrick? What rock do you live under? WayneBrady? I have no idea what ur talking about
kiss_andmakeup Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 It would bother me if my boyfriend frequented strip clubs, for the same reasons listed in the OP. If it was once in a blue moon for a bachelor party I'd probably be able to handle it, but if it became a regular or even semi regular thing I'd have a serious problem with it. I guess the whole issue is the money - but not simply because it's a waste. More because it's insinuating "sure, I can see you naked for free, but I really want to see someone more attractive naked, so badly in fact that I'll cough up a decent chunk of dough to do so." I know guys will say that isn't the case, but that's how it would make me feel. Porn I don't have an issue with because it is available in abundance for free and is just a remedy for horniness when your partner isn't around or for passing time when you're bored. Strip clubs are different, in my mind, due to the personal level of interaction and the monetary expense.
Woggle Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 The women are more like laughing AT the male strippers and making fun of them and are grossed while the GUYS at strip clubs have their eyes closed and are like really into it; like they are having sex. Women don't get like that; they are just laughing at the male strippers. They are not intent on "getting off" and having an orgasm while guys are strip clubs are. Do you truly believe this? Do you think they actually pay to be grossed out? I don't agree with men in relationships doing this but I can't stand how some women act like they have the moral authority on issues like this. Women are just as much cheaters as men are.
SmileFace Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 I have no idea what ur talking about Patrick? Come on? Spongebob reference. Anywho! Your post resembled something WayneBrady would say. Anyway look up on Youtube fpr male strip clubs videos and you will see why I say women are worse.
J200 Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 Patrick? Come on? Spongebob reference. Anywho! Your post resembled something WayneBrady would say. Anyway look up on Youtube fpr male strip clubs videos and you will see why I say women are worse. A lot of those are excerpts from porn movies that are STAGED; the hen party ones where the girl will start sucking off the guy etc... I am a woman but I watch a lot of porn so I know... They are fake.
SmileFace Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 A lot of those are excerpts from porn movies that are STAGED; the hen party ones where the girl will start sucking off the guy etc... I am a woman but I watch a lot of porn so I know... They are fake. Well I have been to one and seen it live. I am pretty sure the girl who performed oral sex on stage, wasn't staged. I know for sure.
J200 Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 Do you truly believe this? Do you think they actually pay to be grossed out? I don't agree with men in relationships doing this but I can't stand how some women act like they have the moral authority on issues like this. Women are just as much cheaters as men are. I think the majority are grossed out and dragged there by their friend. Some might like it. I think the majority of women aren't as into it; they are more like loud and laughing and think it's funny. Whereas with the guys they probably zone out and are in their own world with the stripper. To them the lap dance is like almost sex.
xxoo Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 I think the majority are grossed out and dragged there by their friend. Some might like it. I think the majority of women aren't as into it; they are more like loud and laughing and think it's funny. Whereas with the guys they probably zone out and are in their own world with the stripper. To them the lap dance is like almost sex. I was googling women at male revue shows recently, and shocked at what I saw. But the odd thing I noticed... Whereas, at female strip clubs, the female strippers are trying to get the male patrons off.....at the male revue, the female patrons are (seemingly) trying to get the male stripper off (including providing oral). Seemed odd to me. And, no, absolutely not something I would pay to do! OP--I'm with you. I don't like the idea of my H spending time in strip clubs. When he's gone for bachelor parties (10+ years ago), I was ok with it because he was VERY convincing about feeling "dragged" by the crowd, and not wanting to go I like to believe he was being honest
J200 Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 I was googling women at male revue shows recently, and shocked at what I saw. But the odd thing I noticed... THIS IS STAGED PORN... Shot for entertainment... There is a niche for it; like lesbian, anal, gangbang, its females going wild at male strip clubs. These movies and pics are staged... it's porn. Not real.
xxoo Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 THIS IS STAGED PORN... Shot for entertainment... There is a niche for it; like lesbian, anal, gangbang, its females going wild at male strip clubs. These movies and pics are staged... it's porn. Not real. Homely women in their 60s taking a lick is staged? Who pays to make that? It's a strange world out there
J200 Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 Homely women in their 60s taking a lick is staged? Who pays to make that? It's a strange world out there There's lots of granny porn out there.. Don't believe me? Google "granny gangbang", "granny anal", there's millions of porn like that... It's actually very common and nothing outrageous at all (at least not to me). Believe it or not, some young men like grannies. Not "mature" or "milf" but real grannies, 60's and up. Some 70's etc
Woggle Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 I have never been to a female strip club but I have witness shirtless guys coming from the beach getting drooled over so women can be just as bad as men.
J200 Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 I have never been to a female strip club but I have witness shirtless guys coming from the beach getting drooled over so women can be just as bad as men. Drooling is not bad; drooling is just looking! At strip clubs strippers are rubbing the dicks of their customers and grinding for a long time. How can you compare drooling over someone at the beach to a guy almost getting off from being grinded raw?
xxoo Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 There's lots of granny porn out there.. Don't believe me? Google "granny gangbang", "granny anal", there's millions of porn like that... It's actually very common and nothing outrageous at all (at least not to me). Believe it or not, some young men like grannies. Not "mature" or "milf" but real grannies, 60's and up. Some 70's etc I'm pretty wise in the ways of porn, and have had to displeasure of seeing "granny porn"....but these women I'm referring to aren't going wild. Just a lick and an embarrassed chuckle. In my (jaded) opinion, it wasn't staged. Just very "male pleasure" focused. Still, gross
J200 Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 I'm pretty wise in the ways of porn, and have had to displeasure of seeing "granny porn"....but these women I'm referring to aren't going wild. Just a lick and an embarrassed chuckle. In my (jaded) opinion, it wasn't staged. Just very "male pleasure" focused. Still, gross What keyword did you use to find these pics? I want to look at it to for myself.
xxoo Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 What keyword did you use to find these pics? I want to look at it to for myself. I'll send you a pm.
Woggle Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 Drooling is not bad; drooling is just looking! At strip clubs strippers are rubbing the dicks of their customers and grinding for a long time. How can you compare drooling over someone at the beach to a guy almost getting off from being grinded raw? These women would do just as bad if they could. I remember on a business trip a married woman blatantly tried to seduce me though it didn't work. Women are just as bad as men are.
xpaperxcutx Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 I wouldn't mind my SO going to a strip club provided we actually go together. I understand the negative views that strip clubs have and neither would I defend them. I would actually have a problem with my SO if he makes it a habit of frequenting them. I see strip clubs as an entertainment venue- a place one goes to once in a blue moon.
J200 Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 I'm pretty wise in the ways of porn, and have had to displeasure of seeing "granny porn"....but these women I'm referring to aren't going wild. Just a lick and an embarrassed chuckle. In my (jaded) opinion, it wasn't staged. Just very "male pleasure" focused. Still, gross those hen party videos are fake... I know of the adult companies that shoot some them... Not ALL porn is in your face sex; some niches are more subtle. The hen parties are shot to be more realistic so they have a large amateur female "audience" etc but it's not an actual real strip club where you can pay to get it. It's shot for film. I can't believe how gullible people are. You know those Kink.com videos like Public Humiliation or whatever? Those are fake too. Back in the days gullible people used to think the Bangbus is real too.
xpaperxcutx Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 You know those Kink.com videos like Public Humiliation or whatever? Those are fake too. Back in the days gullible people used to think the Bangbus is real too. OMg Bangbus is not real?
J200 Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 OMg Bangbus is not real? A lot of people thought it was real! It was so convincing because they didn't tell the girls beforehand of the script so it was like improv acting. Just google "is bangbus real". So many idiots on the internet thinking it was real; it's unbelievable.
xpaperxcutx Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 A lot of people thought it was real! It was so convincing because they didn't tell the girls beforehand of the script so it was like improv acting. Just google "is bangbus real". So many idiots on the internet thinking it was real; it's unbelievable. Well I can't say I'm disappointed. I remember the first time I ever watched a BB video, I thought it was epic. ( sry for derailing the thread).
mr.dream merchant Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 Oddly enough, I wouldn't be the least bit put off if my SO was at a strip club. :/
dreamingoftigers Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 God I can't read this kind of stuff anymore. Way too depressing. I will start sticking to the other forums. Are there any guys who actually look at their average women and just think: "wow she's so pretty, I am so lucky and I am going to treat her with so much respect and not ever let her question whether or not she is special to me." Did all of that attitude die in the 1970s? Are we just a batch of ratings and trades?
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