OliveOyl Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 I'm in the mood for a fun thread, based on something I saw in another recent thread. When do you french kiss? Do you ever french kiss as your first kiss? Does it matter to you?
zebracolors Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 If only I could just go see my Türk guy and meet him in person, I feel like I would let him French me all he wants. İts been too many years since İ've had a good kissing:lmao:
veggirl Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 Yeah my last first kiss involved "french" kissing. I guess most of them do, I don't know I've never really kept track or cared to notice, but most kissing does involve tongue, so yeah.
alphamale Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 wouldn't it be sort of hard to french kiss with that long nose of yours olive?
SmileFace Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 wouldn't it be sort of hard to french kiss with that long nose of yours olive? :lmao:
Cee Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 I don't really count it as kissing unless it's French kissing. I mean, if you kiss without tongue, it's pretty much a peck on the mouth. Do people really mash their faces together without opening their mouths?
Jazzari Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 The first kiss is usually prolonged. It starts off slow and exploratory and builds in passion to a true french kiss.
Celestine Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 I actually prefer a first kiss without french kissing. At least if you're looking for something serious with this person. If it's a hook-up at some bar, well then give me the french kiss immediately, there's no point in waiting. Though I must admit it's pretty strange when there is no french kissing involved after some time, it took my last real boyfriend and me two weeks to actually go for a french kiss. I thought I gave him all the signals and boy was I concerned with the reason why it hadn't yet happened.
somedude81 Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 Hwen I Furench kiss en Furance, we call is kissing.
johan Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 The first act of the first kiss is usually just lips, but the second act is a tentative parting of the lips, and then the tips of the tongues might touch. Once that happens, the third act becomes a tighter embrace when you both inhale and kiss deeply and for real. That's how my first kisses go. I couldn't possibly be just a smooch. If I've moved in to kiss, then I stick around for a while and kiss a lot.
shiftedblue Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 idk...a kiss without tongue kind of frustrates me
nana841121 Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 i thought kissing is equivalent to French kissing:)
Feelin Frisky Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 At first I thought frenching on the first kiss would be a no no but what I'm thinking when I hear that is leading with your tongue on the first kiss. I haven't done that or had anyone do that to me. But sure, if we mean a first "make-out session" it has always gotten to tongue. I lervs it. Lerv, lerv, lerv. I make a promise, I'll bring good breath if she will.
Enchanted Girl Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 Most of my first kisses with guys involved tongue. One of the worst ones I had was with a guy who wouldn't move his tongue at all and then got mad at me for challenging his masculinity by moving mine and not letting him take control. Well, I'm sorry if a guy is not up to the challenge to handle a grown woman's sexuality, but I'm not toning it down. All the other guys I french kissed had enough balls to handle it.
Knittress Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 Generally, if I'm bothering to kiss a person, someone is being shoved up against a wall. I'll match the style of whoever I'm kissing, but I'd honestly be bored with a lukewarm kisser.
Enchanted Girl Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 He was a wuss because he didn't kiss you back with his tongue? Yea okay. No, because he said I challenged his masculinity by kissing him with mine. If he loses his masculinity that easily, then I'm not sure what to call him except a wuss.
zengirl Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 I have never french-kissed as a first kiss. The first kiss is usually a long peck (at the end of a 1st,2nd,3rd date, depending), and french-kissing (a teensy bit of making out) usually happens on the next date. That's always been my pattern. Not sure why---not like it's a 'rule' but it would feel awkward to french kiss someone that soon. I think maybe it goes to my 'processing' in terms of usually the kissing being more intensified on the following date. Some time away after that first kiss makes me want to go further towards french-kissing. I generally need some time (apart/between dates) between physical and emotional steps to process and remain interested and to me First Kiss and French Kiss are two different steps.
Kelemort Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 I HATE french kissing. Ugh...just ugh. Not that my partners are bad at it, but it's just awkward. I'll do it sometimes, but VERY, very rarely.
Celestine Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 I have never french-kissed as a first kiss. The first kiss is usually a long peck (at the end of a 1st,2nd,3rd date, depending), and french-kissing (a teensy bit of making out) usually happens on the next date. That's always been my pattern. Not sure why---not like it's a 'rule' but it would feel awkward to french kiss someone that soon. I think maybe it goes to my 'processing' in terms of usually the kissing being more intensified on the following date. Some time away after that first kiss makes me want to go further towards french-kissing. I generally need some time (apart/between dates) between physical and emotional steps to process and remain interested and to me First Kiss and French Kiss are two different steps. I so agree with everything you said. I once had a first date, where the guy french kissed me on the stairway in the middle of a metro station. I pulled away and he just didn't get that for me it was wrong time, wrong place. I used the emergency plan I had with my best friend to get away from the date as soon as possible, I was seventeen but still...
mogul Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 Is there any other type of kissing? Really though, a regular kiss is so boring. I differentiate between a soft, slow, rhythmic tongue movement if it is meaningful or a first kiss. There are also the drunken "I want you now" kisses that are used as a precursor to sex. The latter is fun. If a girl gave me a reserved regular kiss, I would think she isn't interested in me.
Ginger Beer Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 I love kissing. I think it can be better than sex (or my idea of sex as I haven't had sex yet). Every girl I've kissed has said I'm a very good kisser, I like kissing.
Feelin Frisky Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 A playful woman I had an LTR with would sometimes surprise me by leading straight with an erect tongue. It was fun to get that when I wasn't expecting it and made us laugh. It's not something I would do to someone else but I like it done to me as a matter of playfulness.
Author OliveOyl Posted April 22, 2011 Author Posted April 22, 2011 The guy who kissed me on our 2nd date did indeed end with a French kiss, which surprised the heck out of me. I would have said it was too forward, but it was a really good kiss. Whether it is just that I've been in a huge multi-year dry spell or that the kiss was actually good will be determined on our upcoming date this weekend...
Irishlove Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 Not always on a first date unless we both feel it but yes a french kiss. If he can kiss that means he's good in another dept. Also, if he can dance that means he is good in bed. I miss kissing my man.
EasyHeart Posted April 23, 2011 Posted April 23, 2011 Generally, if I'm bothering to kiss a person, someone is being shoved up against a wall. I'll match the style of whoever I'm kissing, but I'd honestly be bored with a lukewarm kisser.Same here!!!
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