Nick71 Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 Some may know me, I do not post often but I am here daily. My ex fiancee disappeared a while ago and it destroyed my life. Today is her birthday. I resisted all contact. It has been the lowest point of my life. I've thought the worst and tried to move on. I've made every excuse I could find but I missed this one. What would you do upon receiving the following email on the birthday of your ex-fiancee who disappeared for 3 months? FYI 19 of F was my birthday upon which I received nothing from her. I'm a little shocked, can I forgive the last 3 months for this... "I wish I could help you but I can't help even myself. I have my life now yes, but at night you are in my dreams you are comming to my dreams..without it would be easier for me..but you are in my heart and i don't have a power to change it. I can only tell you how I am trying to deal with pain. I am trying to think about you as a beautiful dream i had. As an angel who I meet in my dream and all memories I have I am keeping as a dreams. All moments we had together are comming to me all the time. It's composition of pain and smile. Strange mixture I had very dificult time in my life, I had a brain stroke. I was at hospital for one month. Now i am waiting for a heart surgery..and hope everything will go well. It hurts and it's so dificult but i am happy I had posibility to feel what I felt for you. I don't regret it. Ps I wanted to send you wishes at 19 of F. but I've thought it's better to be quiet. I am sending you smile my angel" Any suggestions please?
Shadowburn Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 Ignore her. She ignored you and your birthday easily, but now it's her birthday, and you're not her little puppy anymore and not paying her any attention that she thinks she deserves. Brain stroke, heart surgery...please. Just pathetic.
stopthemadness Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 Ignore her. She ignored you and your birthday easily, but now it's her birthday, and you're not her little puppy anymore and not paying her any attention that she thinks she deserves. Brain stroke, heart surgery...please. Just pathetic. Wow Shadowburn your a hard ass.I dont think they should make contact either but what if that stuff is true? Couldnt they just like send them LOVE and LIGHT and then forget about it. Thinking good thoughts for them would only help everyone ya? BUT make NO CONTACT..
Author Nick71 Posted April 22, 2011 Author Posted April 22, 2011 I didn't reply. I posted on here instead and talked to a friend for hours until I was tired/drunk enough to fall asleep. I think she knows I wish her the best, my last email 3 months ago said as much. I will not be replying to anything that is not what I want to hear. If she managed to go through all of that without needing me to be by her side then she does not need anything from me now. And quite honestly, I'm moving on and I don't need any set-backs. I will think about it today and I may just send Warm Wishes and prayers for her health, I just don't want to get into further contact and I especially don't want to appear available with my little puppy dog tail wagging. Thanks friends, I'll get back to my hangover now :/
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