Glove_slap Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 We were together for 3 years, she was the epitome of a good girl (she was my secret bad girl) I loved her dearly. After highschool ended she left me and started dating an older guy with money, cars and everything a month later. Shes never been to clubs or bars and barely drank alcohol but now she does all of the above. We both go to different universities but are in the same city. Its been like 10 months since we broke up and they're still together. I'm assuming the grass is greener even if hes a chain smoker/drinker he still takes her out shopping and to places that I could never have done (hes 21-22 born to a rich family and works himself). Now that theres a background story my question is if a good girl goes bad is she gone forever? (she had one friend that always pushed her to break up with me and this friend can be described as a typical manipulator that considers anyone that dislikes them to be "haters" and her main goal in life would be to become an import model or model of some sort - she uses guys for emotional and physical support and my ex always wanted to hang out with her because well.....she just wanted to be more popular.)
Hopeless Girl Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 wow! haha funny story .. umm theres probably that inner good girl in her that still there but people do change their ways dude.. its part of life ... dont judge her for it.. and if she left u and is with another guy well accept it and if u wanna be her friend then do so ... i bet u dont ... anyways as for her friend well her friend is an idiot END OF STORY ... u dont have to deal with her,, but call her up and see how shes doing ... its been 10 months ..fb anything
Ajax Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 I don't mean to be a giant nerd or anything, but I think Yoda said it best: Once you start down the dark path, forever will it dominate your destiny. Rather than "good girls going bad" I think we can say that about people in general, men and women. She sounds immature. She may outgrow this, but even if she does, sh'l be different because of it.
poorguy Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 This is fairly typical. Usually when they do this type of thing it almost always has something to do with one of their idiot girlfriends that doesn't like you for whatever reason. Maybe sometimes I may miss my ex but I certainly don't miss her one friend who had a huge hand in destroying our relationship.
Chi townD Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 Well, That's her mistake. Money will only go so far. This guy sounds like a tool and will get tired of her soon. When that happenes, she'll realize what she REALLY lost.
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