ll333 Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 There's this guy who's a friend of some of my cousins. Here I will just refer to him as "E" because I don't want to write his real name here. I met "E" when I was visiting my relatives (he's their neighbor) The neighborhood is a close-knit place. We had a small conversation at first then he said "I want a girl who's like you- caring and lovely" and "what if I was a prince and you're a princess." It's romantic- I thought to myself- but I hope he doesn't say that to many other girls! I was 15 at that time and he was 14. (Now he's 18 turning 19 next month) Then a few months later, one of my relatives gave "E" my number and we had a short texting relationship. When I met him in person again some time later- he denied that he sent me those texts and it was just a joke. He asked me, "Why do you like me?" Then he said the next day, "I just want to be friends. I hope you're not angry." I was a bit disappointed- but I got over it. Then a year later when I visited my relatives again in that same place- I saw "E" and he saw me- but we didn't speak to each other. One of his friends told me that "E" told him that he loves me. Then my cousin left his neighborhood to go to college with me in my town. About a week after my cousin left his hometown- one night my cousin told me that "E" (who is his friend) just sent him a text asking if I'm alright. Does that mean that "E" cares for me? Then another year goes by. I visit my relatives again in that neighborhood and some kids (younger than me and "E") tease me and say "E loves you!", "You're E's girlfriend", and another kid asked "Is E your boyfriend?" Now this year my aunt tells me that "E" told her that he loves me, he won't let go of me yet, and he will find a job first before he continues to court me. I almost believed that until I decided to spy on him on facebook. (My cousin is friends with him on facebook and through my cousin's account- I saw "E''s activity on facebook) "E" flirts with many girls on facebook- he wrote to one girl on her wall "Baby, can we meet"? To another girl he complimented her photo, "nice legs!" To another sexy girl's photos, "wow!" and yet to another girl's photo, "Nice. Can I take you and your guitar? hahahaha." I don't like the sound of this. And according to his facebook activity- he joined cupid.com last week. And I know cupid.com is a dating site. Does this mean he's interested in dating another girls? Does "E" really care for me or is he really just a player? I'm very confused! I was thinking "Maybe he really cares for me and he's not playing with me because he keeps remembering me" and "if he was really playing with me- he'd forget me instead of keep remembering me." Am I right?
veggirl Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 He wants as many girls as he can get. You are one of those girls. One of maaany.
nana841121 Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 He is a player to me Real affection won't get you confused
Author ll333 Posted April 23, 2011 Author Posted April 23, 2011 (edited) Maybe he really did like me when he told my aunt last August that he won't let go of me yet and he wants to continue to court me after he finds a job. But after he uses the internet, (I think he started using the internet last year) joins facebook, and meets lots of girls- he probably changed his mind about me : ( Edited April 23, 2011 by ll333
Author ll333 Posted April 24, 2011 Author Posted April 24, 2011 If he's just a player and he doesn't really care for me- then why did he ask my cousin in a text if I'm alright?
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