oreo07 Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 So about 6 months ago my girlfriend of about 2 1/2 years broke up with me. She cut me off from communication completely. This was one of the hardest things. I called,texted did whatever i could to get her attention for more explanation but was unsuccessful. Because of this i fell into a depression and seemed to glorify her in my mind. About 3 months after that we ran into each other at a mutual friends and re sparked things up. For the past couple months we have been acting like we are in a relationship. in the last week she became increasingly "busy" and claims she has no time for me and has slowly phased me out and cut me off once again. This person that i talked to everyday would now be a very awkward conversation to have. This breaks my heart especially since we have so many mutual friends and i basically got played twice. Now im left with feeling horrible, i lost my urge to do anything productive and "keeping myself busy" didnt work the first time nor does it now. I'm at a complete loss of what to do, emotionally im not prepared to go through two intense break ups in such a short period of time. Andy advice on how to not waste my days sulking, or come home crying?
Whats the point Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 well I think that by now she knows that she likes you, to some level. Because of the fact that you guys reconnected the second time. But I do think she's playing with you. Because she probably thinks that you will always be there. And in addition to that she didn't even give you a reason for leaving. She will probably do it again. I think that you should gather yourself and just walk away. And the next time she feels that spark and wants to be with you she will find out that you weren't a toy that she could just use.
swfc_77 Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 i had the exact same happen to me, together 2 yrs, left for another guy, came back and left again 3-4 months later. moving in and out of my house all of the time. walk away you will feel great in 6 months or so trust me,
Byren Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 I completely understand the not being able to be productive thing. The first week after the break-up I didn't get out of bed much and just watched prison break. Luckily I was off from work for the month afterwards so I spent most of the time hanging out with my house mates and playing games. Don't force yourself to do anything if you don't want to, everyone deals with this in different ways - I really couldn't force myself to do anything because nothing helped me. Time will help however, and even though every day will test you, eventually things will become brighter
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