Hopeless Girl Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 So one of my best female friends is having a bday party tomorrow and mye x is gonna be there.. dont ask its a whole circle things, he is also friends with my best female friend... anyways ... im nervous ... i dont wanna get to drunk and make a fool but should i talk to him as in normally like hes a normal person there or should i converse with him group wise as in were all together in a group and were all talking?
Irishlove Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 Drunk and talking don't mix at all. Rule of thumb...if your ex is there and you are drinking...go in another room or shut up. Don't talk about him to anyone. Be the bigger person. Show him you are mature and not some drunk foolish bimbo.
Chi townD Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 Agree with Irish...and also HAVE FUN!!! Talk to folks! Let him see you're not bothered by his presence. Let him see that you are happy. If he approaches you. Give him the one or two liner's that you women have seemed to mastered and move on to someone elses conversation.
JasonRules Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 Personally, I wouldn't be going to this party. You still care enough about him to make you post on here. You're not ready. I would cancel. Remain NC as long as you need to until you simply do not care at all.
Author Hopeless Girl Posted April 20, 2011 Author Posted April 20, 2011 Personally, I wouldn't be going to this party. You still care enough about him to make you post on here. You're not ready. I would cancel. Remain NC as long as you need to until you simply do not care at all. your kiddin' right? its called ACTING .. nobody wants to be in this situation but u have to deal with the pressure ... its my best friends party and not going will be even worse because it'll be obvious why im not going and SHES ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS ..
JasonRules Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 your kiddin' right? its called ACTING .. nobody wants to be in this situation but u have to deal with the pressure ... its my best friends party and not going will be even worse because it'll be obvious why im not going and SHES ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS .. Ok, then. Go and act like you don't care. Then when you come home and feel like crap because you saw him flirt with another woman etc, you can post on here. It's ok though; your best friend will "understand". Very sound thinking...
Author Hopeless Girl Posted April 20, 2011 Author Posted April 20, 2011 Ok, then. Go and act like you don't care. Then when you come home and feel like crap because you saw him flirt with another woman etc, you can post on here. It's ok though; your best friend will "understand". Very sound thinking... So what if ur right ... what if i get home sad and feeling like crap cause he might flirt with another woman... its not the end of the world... im just asking u guys how to handle the situation of seeing him
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