RDawg Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 Yeah yer unsympathetic bastid, you were right. There are no second chances. I hated reading your advice at the time but you know what stranger? You were so bloody right. One year down the road and here I am, fully restored and three months into a brand new adventure with an incredible new woman. Cheer up sad emo kids, it will get better. Focus on yourself. Focus dammit! But you wont believe me how much better it gets till you've been through it. And when you reach the other side remeber to come back here and pass the message on. G'night.
SimonSerenade Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 I hear that bud, been about 9 months for me, been going out a lot and hanging around with friends in past 2 or 3 months, got myself back in the dating game and though they haven't quite worked out, I feel a lot better cause I don't even think of my ex any more and when I do, there's no pain, no love, no hate, just plain nothing, she's the mother of my child and that's all she is, now my mind is clearer and away from the smoke of the wreck she made us, I realised who she was and what she did, there'll never be a second chance in the offing for her, I've learned a valuable lesson and become much stronger than I ever expected myself to be, I'm happy with or without someone but I hope I find that special person like you did mate, keep this message rolling for all those who need faith, there is light at the end of the tunnel
stopthemadness Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 Yeah yer unsympathetic bastid, you were right. There are no second chances. I hated reading your advice at the time but you know what stranger? You were so bloody right. One year down the road and here I am, fully restored and three months into a brand new adventure with an incredible new woman. Cheer up sad emo kids, it will get better. Focus on yourself. Focus dammit! But you wont believe me how much better it gets till you've been through it. And when you reach the other side remeber to come back here and pass the message on. G'night. Thanks for the Update. Its so nice to hear that people DO get through these hard times.. AM sure in the back of our minds we know we,re getten better. As each day that goes by our heart ache seems less and less.(thank God) And GOOD 4 u to have found your next relationship person...Hope it works out, am sure it will. Sounds like your going into this with a clear head. And yes when I reach the other side I plan on droppping L/S a post just like you. Carry on my friend and God speed.
Author RDawg Posted November 26, 2013 Author Posted November 26, 2013 Funny to read what I wrote back in April 2011. I thought I had finally found her. Man we had two great years, bought a house and thought we would marry. 10 months of living together, lots of mistakes culminating in the mother of all mistakes and here I am, back on Loveshack with another broken heart. Good grief, when will it all end? 1
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