jfairmont Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 So there is this guy that I have been seeing for the past 3-4 weeks about 3 times a week. He seemed genuinely into me because he asked me questions about my life and he never really put any strong moves on me. We usually have a lot of fun together talking about things. He is my tutor. So he helps me with my papers and such. But most of the time we will get side tracked and talk and laugh with each other about nonsense. We have the same tastes in movies and music, and we really get along well together. He always looks into my eyes when he talks to me, like really deeply and staring, always listens, and even brings up things that I said three weeks ago. He blushes frequently when he's around me. He always seems excited to see me. He stares at me when he thinks I am not looking. When we talk he will purposely tap his knee against mine a lot and will purposely but lightly bump his arm into mine. He leans in close to me. And he always makes an excuse to keep the conversation going as long as possible. Not to mention he is extremely smart. He is planning on becoming a doctor which is also a coincidence because I am as well.we talk about the sciences often and philosophy. I always feel happy around him and he does anything to put a smile on my face. However, last week he contacted me to say that he couldn't make it to a tutoring session I had scheduled but he immediately said that we could make it the next day. I said fine, no problem. So we met up and had a good time together as usual. But this week I said to him when are you free for another tutoring session and he told me when, and I said fine, its a session. I take two buses to get to my school and it takes me an hour to get there. I waited for him for 15 minutes. He didn't show up. I came back an hour later to see if he was late or something (he doesn't have my phone number so i couldn't talk to him or anything) but he wasn't there nor did he show up. I was infuriated, but I kept my cool and just wrote him a simple email saying that I came around but you weren't there and if he planned on coming in that day in the first place. I didn't want to sound upset because something bad might have happened to him (emergency). But what does this all mean? He still hasn't emailed me back even though its already been three hours since I sent the email. I am really unsure about what is going on.
TaraMaiden Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 Until you know, you'll have to give him the benefit of the doubt.....
Jazzari Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 Based on what you said, I would be more inclined to think he has a good reason for not showing.
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