whoknowswhattodo Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 I can't hold on anymore this pain is getting deaper everyday, every second. I can't take the pain of her choosing him anymore.
flitzanu Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 if you are feeling this way, you should seek a doctor's help right now, or a counselor of some sort.
dreamingoftigers Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 What you are experiencing is actually a temporary limbic injury in your brain. It may not feel temporary at all but it is. It will take about 6 months to stabilize and each time you feel the urge to kill yourself but a timer on for 22 minutes and phone a distress line. The urge should pass and your brain will adapt to not having her around. It will after a time whether you want it to or not. The fact that you are posting on here is a good step to reach out for that lifeline and stabilize yourself. Good for you. Now call someone local everytime that you get the urge until it passes. Most people won't understand it but there are a bunch of us that do. You are not sad, pathetic, or of poor character because you have the overwhelming urge to kill yourself. Post up more often and let us know how you are doing. I wish you well and you will pull through and no you will not feel this pain forever even though it seems that way. Life is not always stars, rainbows and bubbles. I am sorry that you have to go through this. I know it sucks worse then pretty much anything else.
makelemonade1974 Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 1800SUICIDE - I called it a billion times during my breakup and I wasn't even suicidal. It will just give you somebody to talk to. And we are always here for you. It does get better. I promise.
TaraMaiden Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 I can't hold on anymore this pain is getting deaper everyday, every second. I can't take the pain of her choosing him anymore. Oh don't be so ridiculous. Read this thread and see how foolish you're being. Someone may bite my head off for biting your head off, but honestly - you will get over this. Wanting to kill yourself over something like this is an extremely foolish notion. Those people around you who love and care for you will be 1000 times more devastated, and you won't be able to relieve their pain. Now get a grip, because actually - you're doing this to yourself. She isn't. Don't perpetuate the pain for yourself.... yell, rant, scream, cry, vent, shout or hit something hard, until you collapse from the effort and it's completely disintegrated. But really - stop this thinking, and stop it now.....
marqueemoon4 Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 wow, thats an attention grabbing title... but yea please don't do it, no person is worth taking your own life for.
dreamingoftigers Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 Oh don't be so ridiculous. Read this thread and see how foolish you're being. Someone may bite my head off for biting your head off, but honestly - you will get over this. Wanting to kill yourself over something like this is an extremely foolish notion. Those people around you who love and care for you will be 1000 times more devastated, and you won't be able to relieve their pain. Now get a grip, because actually - you're doing this to yourself. She isn't. Don't perpetuate the pain for yourself.... yell, rant, scream, cry, vent, shout or hit something hard, until you collapse from the effort and it's completely disintegrated. But really - stop this thinking, and stop it now..... The bolded is shaming, and tbh, shaming has rarely been a productive way to change people's minds against negative actions. Shaming can often drive them to do it out of rebellion etc. Many addicts are like this. Shamed those that are already at the point of wanting to take their own life is like adding another 100 lb bag to someone who is already hauling 300 lbs and their back is breaking. As always....strategy when dealing with human nature. The OP's feelings of wanting to kill themselves are just as valid as everyone else's.
TaraMaiden Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 tells me your box is full... can't send you a PM.....
dreamingoftigers Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 I got your PM and responded and deleted a text.
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