OCCDAVE Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 Well tomorrow is my date with this girl I've been chatting with for about a week on line.I'm not gonna lie I'm nervous mainly cause seems I've already said to much on text/ph so come tomorrow afraid silent moments are gonna happen.Any advice on whats good to keep the night going smooth.Place we're going to will also have a sports game on which shes a fan of but last thing i want is for both of us to be watching tv ignoring each other till one decides to go.
Author OCCDAVE Posted April 20, 2011 Author Posted April 20, 2011 I also was wondering is being a bit flirty with her to much
Irishlove Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 Well tomorrow is my date with this girl I've been chatting with for about a week on line.I'm not gonna lie I'm nervous mainly cause seems I've already said to much on text/ph so come tomorrow afraid silent moments are gonna happen.Any advice on whats good to keep the night going smooth.Place we're going to will also have a sports game on which shes a fan of but last thing i want is for both of us to be watching tv ignoring each other till one decides to go. Do not watch a game on a date even if she likes sports. I wouldn't even talk sports unless she initiates it. Ask about her family, her chilldhood, dreams, goals, don't be nervous. Confidence is sexy in a guy. Talk about her, if she has pretty eyes or the color of her eyes or the perfect shaped lips. Trust me. Girls like when you talk about us. Post back and let us know.
Author OCCDAVE Posted April 20, 2011 Author Posted April 20, 2011 So avoid the game gotcha it will be hard but ill.try.i am planning on talking about her but if the convo seems onesided that a red flag.
Irishlove Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 So avoid the game gotcha it will be hard but ill.try.i am planning on talking about her but if the convo seems onesided that a red flag. It's really a back and forth thing. It should flow back n forth in conversation. I think you will be fine.
Author OCCDAVE Posted April 20, 2011 Author Posted April 20, 2011 I hope so i also plan on hanging with another girl saturday night.im excited but not really since she wants to hang out at a club meh
Irishlove Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 Club dates are usually get drunk and get laid dates. The first girl sounds a bit more grounded. Plus....when the time comes...you want to settle down with a girl who likes sports. lol
runner Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 think about the best, most interesting bits in your previous conversations. build on that and dig deeper when you see her. don't make it an interview and don't go on about yourself too much. and make sure you touch her
SmileFace Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 (edited) Do not watch a game on a date even if she likes sports. I wouldn't even talk sports unless she initiates it. Ask about her family, her chilldhood, dreams, goals, don't be nervous. Confidence is sexy in a guy. Talk about her, if she has pretty eyes or the color of her eyes or the perfect shaped lips. Trust me. Girls like when you talk about us. Post back and let us know. I don't agree. I rather talk about the game, especially if I am a fan - than have some guy talk about how perfectly my lips are shaped on a first date. She is a fan - I see no reason why you can't both enjoy the game. Who is actually silent while watching a game anyway? Edited April 20, 2011 by SmileFace
mo mo Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 I don't agree. I rather talk about the game, especially if I am a fan - than have some guy talk about how perfectly my lips are shaped on a first date. She is a fan - I see no reason why you can't both enjoy the game. Who is actually silent while watching a game anyway? whoa u have dsl?
Author OCCDAVE Posted April 20, 2011 Author Posted April 20, 2011 I was thinking the club one was kinda iffy besides how can u get to know anyone at a club.ill keep my fingers crossed i want this sports chick to work.btw would it be wrong in the end of the date if all goes well be like id like to see you more or let her make the next outing
Author OCCDAVE Posted April 20, 2011 Author Posted April 20, 2011 Club dates are usually get drunk and get laid dates. The first girl sounds a bit more grounded. Plus....when the time comes...you want to settle down with a girl who likes sports. lolthe club girl text me saying she was at the club till 5 am.i was joking saying so guess your not up.to going tonight.she said ya we can go tonight if you want.maybe im just lame and she just likes to party i.dunno
Irishlove Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 the club girl text me saying she was at the club till 5 am.i was joking saying so guess your not up.to going tonight.she said ya we can go tonight if you want.maybe im just lame and she just likes to party i.dunno bar fly.....bzzzzzzzzzzzz She's looking for free drinks. I wouldn't waste your time. Seems that's where she likes to spend her nights and during the weekdays it's pretty lame to be at a club.
Author OCCDAVE Posted April 20, 2011 Author Posted April 20, 2011 Started thinking that i mean like i said you cant get to know anybody at a club.meh main focus goes back to the other
Author OCCDAVE Posted April 21, 2011 Author Posted April 21, 2011 Eh started to noticed ever since i asked her out both.text and calls have slowed down.ill admit now my mindset will be expectin the worse sigh
curlygirl40 Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 I'll echo what another poster said and say that girls like confidence. It's normal to be nervous but try not to show it. If it seems like it's going well being a little flirty is o.k I think. IMO if she's smiling and laughing a lot and touches you at all (like on the arm) then she has some interest. Don't talk about negative stuff, like previous break ups or past relationships. Keep it positive and find out things about her. If you're into her, don't ask her how she thinks it's going. Even if it's going well I always think it's a little strange when a guy asks me in the middle of the date if I like him, if I would date him again, how do I think it's going, etc. When I'm into a guy and it's obvious that there was a connection, I LOVE it when a guy says to me as we're saying our goodbye's 'When can I see you again?' or 'can I see you again?'. Maybe it's just me but I love that when it's obvious to both of us that we 'clicked' and I know before I leave that he felt the same way. I think the issue with the game could go either way. Take her lead. Maybe she's really into the sports thing and is looking forward to watching the game with you. Who knows. Maybe let her choose where you're going to sit and see if she chooses a spot with a good angle towards the game?? Best of luck. Update us and let us know!
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