Feelin Frisky Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 Either there was a chance of getting seen and assuredly embarrassed or there wasn't. If there was then he should simply get the benefit of the doubt. If it was really remote than anyone could disturb then sure, there's reason to be disappointed. If I'm getting this right there has been no sexual goings on before this. I could see it possible that a guy might not want something awkward like that the first time IF HE REALLY LIKES YOU. If he doesn't really care that much most any guy would risk it.
ASG Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 I wouldn't worry about it. He was probably just worried about being caught. Also, assuming you're adults... Cars? really? I haven't done anything in a car since I was like... 17 and I don't EVER want to go there again!
AzaleaBelle Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 I wouldn't worry about it. He was probably just worried about being caught. Also, assuming you're adults... Cars? really? I haven't done anything in a car since I was like... 17 and I don't EVER want to go there again! LOL. Haven't you ever been on a road trip and had to have it right then and there? Or on the way home from a nice, medium-rare steak dinner? (that does it for me) In those cases, I usually finish pretty quickly before the discomfort starts to set it.
mitchell Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 I wouldn't worry about it. He was probably just worried about being caught. Also, assuming you're adults... Cars? really? I haven't done anything in a car since I was like... 17 and I don't EVER want to go there again! She explained that they are dating and live 45 minutes apart. They both have kids and have not had much of a chance to be alone. I say "bravo" for their passion and spontaneity!!! I wish I had more of that.
AzaleaBelle Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 She explained that they are dating and live 45 minutes apart. They both have kids and have not had much of a chance to be alone. I say "bravo" for their passion and spontaneity!!! I wish I had more of that. ME TOO! I hope for Lemonade's sake, that this man is not fuddy duddy, but rather just concerned about the legal implications. I think she had the right idea and attitude.
Author makelemonade1974 Posted April 20, 2011 Author Posted April 20, 2011 Well it seemed a little less sleazy than a hotel.
EasyHeart Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 Nope. BJ in a car is definitely sleazier than a hotel. Jes sayin'.
Author makelemonade1974 Posted April 20, 2011 Author Posted April 20, 2011 No it's NOT!! Hotels are prostitute sleazy.
ASG Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 Nope. BJ in a car is definitely sleazier than a hotel. Jes sayin'. LOL This! I get really turned off by the whole car thing. The lack of room to move and the amount of obstacles really turns me off. So.. yeah, I've gotten hot and heavy in cars... But moved it quickly to a house. Guess I've just been lucky that way, to have some kind of house available within a reasonable distance. Or sometimes not so much, but it would still have been better than a car. Now that I think about it, I did get very physical in a car in my 20's. The guy I was dating was working that night but had an hour off and I met him in some secluded place outside his work. It was probably the worst sex we had! It was akward, with all the obstacles and the lack of space and the worrying that someone might come our way... So really not looking forward to a repeat experience on that!
poorguy Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 This is awsome...Lemonade you be crazy!!! I'm sorry LM could'nt help it..sorry. Btw definately definately f.ck your ex. You were probably way to cool for him anyways. Any chick that thinks as much as you do about, at times, the funniest things is awsome. Even though you may not know it
ASG Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 No it's NOT!! Hotels are prostitute sleazy. So are cars! Where do you think Hugh Grant was caught with his prostitute, back in the day?
Author makelemonade1974 Posted April 20, 2011 Author Posted April 20, 2011 I would totally f u c k Hugh Grant in a car.
poorguy Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 I would totally f u c k Hugh Grant in a car. I think he may have tried that and he did'nt even get to the good part so I guess keep that one in mind
harmfulsweetz Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 Nerves, not everyone likes the thrill of it. I, myself, love car sex. I'm 23, live at home still (student) and well, why not? It's different, and I think half the fun of it is in the danger of being caught. But if he's been caught already, he's probably a lot more wary than I. And I think the lack of space to manouvre is good too, cramped, up close and personal kinda thing. It's sleazy sure, but fun to boot. If you're into that kind of thing. Plus, I'd rather do the car spontaenity thing than book a hotel room, it's all pre-planned, you're only there for the sex, least the other way it's a little interesting. Then again, I was caught giving a bj in a bush by a cop once when I was sixteen Funny old times.
harmfulsweetz Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 I would totally f u c k Hugh Grant in a car. So would I.
Author makelemonade1974 Posted April 20, 2011 Author Posted April 20, 2011 harmful - you are awesome - in a bush? A big bush or a little bush? Lmao. I get the maneuvering thing - my guy is big - 6 feet and muscles. No moving around for him at least lol.
poorguy Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 This all proves that girls have wayyyy dirtier minds then guys...Sometimes people think it's the other way around lol
harmfulsweetz Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 harmful - you are awesome - in a bush? A big bush or a little bush? Lmao. I get the maneuvering thing - my guy is big - 6 feet and muscles. No moving around for him at least lol. :lmao: Oh yes, a bush, I really don't remember what spurred it but it was fun. Until we got caught, but even that was hilarious. Means you get all the fun then
harmfulsweetz Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 This all proves that girls have wayyyy dirtier minds then guys...Sometimes people think it's the other way around lol Oh yeah, women just hide it better. We like to pretend to be innocent, but really, we're just thinking of jumping you in the car.
ASG Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 I would totally f u c k Hugh Grant in a car. That made me laugh out loud! I wouldn't! I'd take him home!
plowguy1 Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 I've got the answer, but you're not gonna like it. He's with a woman who was married, with kids at home, who is blowing guys in cars like a teenager. get yer f@#$in while you can, it aint gonna last, he has no respect for you. His ex probably did this while married to him... Gotta love the modern woman
Author makelemonade1974 Posted April 20, 2011 Author Posted April 20, 2011 I've got the answer, but you're not gonna like it. He's with a woman who was married, with kids at home, who is blowing guys in cars like a teenager. get yer f@#$in while you can, it aint gonna last, he has no respect for you. His ex probably did this while married to him... Gotta love the modern woman Dude. I've been dating him for six months and we haven't had sex yet. I don't think respect is an issue. But thanks for enlightening me. I know you're just trying to look out for me plowguy - ur so sweet.
poorguy Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 Oh yeah, women just hide it better. We like to pretend to be innocent, but really, we're just thinking of jumping you in the car. That's funny. I figured that out like three years ago. Once I actually realized it, I could actually see how true it was because I would like see what they would come up with or day lol. Sometimes I would just be like what!?!? Really!?!? I love it all though.
snug.bunny Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 Making out in a vehicle can be hot and sezzy, but maybe he didn't want first time sex with you to consist of getting head in a car? I think oral sex should be more like a package deal, if you want to sucky suck someone off in a car that you're dating casually, try not to get upset if he is apprehensive with it because maybe he views it differently, who knows.
EasyHeart Posted April 23, 2011 Posted April 23, 2011 LEMONADE!!!! It's Saturday. Tell us how you are going to make Too-Nervous-For-a-BJ Guy suffer and grovel tonight!!!
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