makelemonade1974 Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 Made out with my new guy - we've been dating for months but very casual. It's getting a bit more serious. Trouble is, he lives about 45 minutes away, and I live with my children, so we haven't really had the opportunity to do it yet - although we plan on making that opportunity happen soon. So we are making out in his car after our dinner date last night. Things got a little uh oral. Anyhoo, he STOPPED me halfway because he said he was too nervous that someone would see us. I am probably being a little sensitive, but seriously? My feelings are hurt. Plus I think he's really uptight. What the heck? What would YOU do? I feel rejected and a little irritated Is this what you would call a normal reaction to such a situation?
TaraMaiden Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 Yes, it's normal for some. not all of us are open.....
Ross MwcFan Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 He was just nervous, no need to take it personally.
Author makelemonade1974 Posted April 20, 2011 Author Posted April 20, 2011 Yes, it's normal for some. not all of us are open..... Love it. :bunny:
Imajerk17 Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 You crazy horny teenager you. Do you have bad breath? I'm being serious here. It can make the other person want to gag!
Author makelemonade1974 Posted April 20, 2011 Author Posted April 20, 2011 No, I have lovely breath, and my mouth was nowhere near his face.
mitchell Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 Have you given him oral before? I simply cannot imagine a guy stopping a girl from giving him oral. It would take a nuclear attack to get me to tell my wife to stop once she got started!!
Author makelemonade1974 Posted April 20, 2011 Author Posted April 20, 2011 Yeah, tell me about it. I am p i s s e d :mad: (although he tried to be very nice about it and we will have more privacy this weekend at his house.) But no, first time, and I now what I'm doing thank you very much. :mad:
mitchell Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 Yeah, tell me about it. I am p i s s e d :mad: (although he tried to be very nice about it and we will have more privacy this weekend at his house.) But no, first time, and I now what I'm doing thank you very much. :mad: Yikes! That smarts on your first time! Perhaps chalk it up to nerves and give him another chance this weekend. Make him go down on you first as payback for his bad behavior.
Imajerk17 Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 Maybe he's just not into blowjobs. I'm not too into them. The best part of sex is taking her and having my way with her, and it's hard to do if you're just sitting there in a car while she's down under doing her thing.
Author makelemonade1974 Posted April 20, 2011 Author Posted April 20, 2011 Yikes! That smarts on your first time! Perhaps chalk it up to nerves and give him another chance this weekend. Make him go down on you first as payback for his bad behavior. Ah, I like this idea. Punishment.
WorldIsYours Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 Yikes! That smarts on your first time! Perhaps chalk it up to nerves and give him another chance this weekend. Make him go down on you first as payback for his bad behavior. Ugh. Hell no.
mitchell Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 Ugh. Hell no. Why not? I'd love to be "punished" this way.
veggirl Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 LOL you are seriously "pissed"? Where were you guys parked? How old is this guy? I mean after a certain age (um like 21?) yeah it would be embarrassing as f*k to get caught doing that in a car. Hello.
Irishlove Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 He could have been scared, he may not have known what to do with the cum, you could have given a bad bj, He might have been seated uncomfortably. There are alot of issues. If he said that then believe him.
AzaleaBelle Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 I would understand if he asked you stop if someone was approaching. He could probably see better than you. Otherwise.....why the hell not?
EasyHeart Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 I'm over 21 and I have no problem with women spontaneously demonstrating their (oral) affection in my European driving machine. The only thing I can think of that would get me to stop her is if I saw my mom heading our way. Otherwise, I would just let her enjoy herself.
purplepanda Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 WHOA. Major overreaction. It sounds honest to me, so believe him. If he stops you in his HOUSE, then you know something's up.
Author makelemonade1974 Posted April 20, 2011 Author Posted April 20, 2011 I know! Can you believe that! I talked to him this afternoon and apparently he has been "caught" before in public places - got a ticket once by a cop for screwing in the backseat of a car, and then there's another story I won't go into. Explains things a little bit so I feel better. My feelings were really hurt.
Author makelemonade1974 Posted April 20, 2011 Author Posted April 20, 2011 WHOA. Major overreaction. It sounds honest to me, so believe him. If he stops you in his HOUSE, then you know something's up. Yeah, I may be a teeny bit sensitive.
EasyHeart Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 Poor Lemonade! Your last post raises a different question. I'm assuming this guy is a grownup, so why is he screwing in cars? I don't think I've done that since high school. (And I got caught once. It did not traumatized me; it just gave me a funny story to tell).
Author makelemonade1974 Posted April 20, 2011 Author Posted April 20, 2011 Poor Lemonade! Your last post raises a different question. I'm assuming this guy is a grownup, so why is he screwing in cars? I don't think I've done that since high school. (And I got caught once. It did not traumatized me; it just gave me a funny story to tell). It happened when he was 19. I know. Poor me!
EasyHeart Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 It happened when he was 19. I know. Poor me! Well, I was 18 and, like I said, it didn't traumatize me. I don't buy the bad breathe argument because I doubt you would have bad breathe and, like you said, your mouth wasn't anywhere near his nose! And even if you had garlic-breath, I can't see why it would matter. BJs are like ice cream: some are good and some are awesome, but there's really no such thing as a "bad" BJ. Especially in this case, where he didn't even have to do anything in return! Most of us men are pretty simple creatures. He'd better make it up to you this weekend. Make him grovel. And make him earn your forgiveness. He had his chance; this time it should be all about YOU!!!
Nexus One Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 I don't buy the bad breathe argument because I doubt you would have bad breathe Well since she was giving a blow job, she could have had c*ck breath. But I doubt that was his reason for wanting to stop.
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