Justin102 Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 This is kind of complicated... I met this girl a while back and I liked her right away. All of my friends were telling her I had a crush on her so she knew how I felt. Her and I started talking about how we felt and she said she wasn't sure she wanted to be in a relationship because she felt like she was always in a relationship. Then later that night her and I were watching a movie alone and I went in for a kiss and she kissed me back then a couple minutes later she went in for a kiss herself. I invited her to come stay the night at my place and we went for a walk at the park and watched another movie at my place. We kissed multiple times that night and she told me she was going back home the next day(she lives about 2 hours away). I gave her an unexpected kiss before she was leaving and she invited me to come up to her place for a couple days. When we got there we were laying in her bed kissing and thing kind of started going south if you know what I mean. But I told her I didn't feel comfortable having sex with her since we weren't dating and she said "Well that's probably gonna change". So I asked her out and she said yes and we had sex that night. The next day was great and we went to the movies and she cooked dinner for me and we even had sex again lol. The next night she asked me if I wanted to go out with her and her friends to a party, I told her I wanted to but I didn't really know anyone there so I told her to just go by herself.She asked me "Are you really gonna let me go out tonight without you?I've never had a boyfriend like that before." and she sounded pretty happy too. The next morning she seemed rather distant and I noticed that one of the hooks on her bra was undone cause she was wearing an open back shirt. Anyways she ended up breaking up with me that night and was saying that she doesn't think it's gonna work out because she felt rushed into the relationship from everyone telling her what she should do and she wants to think about getting her life together and getting a place of her own and what not... this is day 4 of our relationship btw lol. She says that she hopes it doesn't effect our friendship and wants to stay friends and see where it goes from there. Anyways I really like this girl but I don't know what I should do. Should I stay friends or just move on or what?
Chi townD Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 Just move on dude. She came back from the party not fully put back together and distant and then wanting to break up with you? I'm not saying she cheated, but something may have happened. You need to distance yourself. If she doesn't understand, just tell her that you still have feelings for her and you can't just "be" her friend if those feelings are still present. Then a strong NC.
Author Justin102 Posted April 20, 2011 Author Posted April 20, 2011 Alright guys, thanks for the replies. Guess its time to move on then =/
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