Is there a slight chance this plan would work?

[one goal]

Why is she b*tchy towards me lately? Like today in class I asked her a simple question about my assignment and she was kinda rude about it.

 

Then after class when I said goodbye, see you on Thur, she kind of mumbled to me as she left.

 

Why is it even when I try to simply be friendly and polite towards her she is kinda in a b*tchy mood towards me? She wasn't like that with others today. She was laughing and talkative to everyone else, but when it comes to me she is not like that. She must have a bone to pick with me.

 

Others told me she doesn't reply to their emails niether. Yesterday I emailed her about class, and told her her tattoo was cute also.

 

Why is she moody towards me, but was in a good mood with everyone else today? I didn't say anything mean to her today or hit on her.

[Lorelei_Lane]

omg he's still posting?

[lizwashere]

Why is she b*tchy towards me lately? Like today in class I asked her a simple question about my assignment and she was kinda rude about it.

 

Then after class when I said goodbye, see you on Thur, she kind of mumbled to me as she left.

 

Why is it even when I try to simply be friendly and polite towards her she is kinda in a b*tchy mood towards me? She wasn't like that with others today. She was laughing and talkative to everyone else, but when it comes to me she is not like that. She must have a bone to pick with me.

 

Others told me she doesn't reply to their emails niether. Yesterday I emailed her about class, and told her her tattoo was cute also.

 

Why is she moody towards me, but was in a good mood with everyone else today? I didn't say anything mean to her today or hit on her.

 

I knew it would happen sooner or later - the blaming game and calling her nasty names. She wants nothing to do with you because you are a sociopath who won't take NO FOR AN ANSWER.

[one goal]

I knew it would happen sooner or later - the blaming game and calling her nasty names. She wants nothing to do with you because you are a sociopath who won't take NO FOR AN ANSWER.

 

I'm not calling her names. Just describing the mood she was in towards me.

[dispatch3d]

one goal you think way too much of this woman. You dont even know her. Neither should you know her!

 

From a dating perspective your chances are ****ed. You have a 4880982309x better chance with every other woman in the world.

 

From a friend perspective your screwed. You are practically attempting to get her fired. You have a near 0% chance of ever being friends with her.

 

From a student perspective your in ****. You pissed her off. She's never going to help you.

 

From a making enemies perspective you aren't doing too bad. She's well on her way to wanting to avoid you.

 

Stop idolizing women. More importantly, stop idolizing this woman. Why don't you start off with just talking to more girls, rather than attempting some sort of Casa Nova move. Casa nova stuff isn't real, and I hate to break it to you, but you aren't the guy with those skills.

 

Step 1 of dating: talk to women.

 

lets start there. Talking to your teacher is the wrong person to start with.

[one goal]

one goal you think way too much of this woman. You dont even know her. Neither should you know her!

 

From a dating perspective your chances are ****ed. You have a 4880982309x better chance with every other woman in the world.

 

From a friend perspective your screwed. You are practically attempting to get her fired. You have a near 0% chance of ever being friends with her.

 

From a student perspective your in ****. You pissed her off. She's never going to help you.

 

From a making enemies perspective you aren't doing too bad. She's well on her way to wanting to avoid you.

 

Stop idolizing women. More importantly, stop idolizing this woman. Why don't you start off with just talking to more girls, rather than attempting some sort of Casa Nova move. Casa nova stuff isn't real, and I hate to break it to you, but you aren't the guy with those skills.

 

Step 1 of dating: talk to women.

 

lets start there. Talking to your teacher is the wrong person to start with.

 

Well she's friends with other students on a friendly bases, and has lots of students on facebook.

 

Yet she tries to avoid me.

[Lorelei_Lane]

Well she's friends with other students on a friendly bases, and has lots of students on facebook.

 

Yet she tries to avoid me.

 

Gee wonder why....

 

*fast forward a few months, One Goal is in jail for stalking and harassment*

 

[dispatch3d]

Talk to women. Like all women. And have them comfortable talking back to you.

 

Actually, don't talk to that woman. She seems to be inhibiting you from talking to all women, and forcing you to focus on just one woman.

 

So get good at talking to all woman except that particular person. For now we will call her voldamore, because I don't think you should even say her name/think of her/be around her.

[one goal]

Gee wonder why....

 

*fast forward a few months, One Goal is in jail for stalking and harassment*

 

 

I didn't do anything though. She has no basis for a restraining order. If she made something up and got one, I'd appeal it all the way to state Supreme Court if I had to.

 

I didn't stalk her!

[dreamingoftigers]

omg he's still posting?

 

The thread that wouldn't die....

 

One goal she isn't your friend and is other student's friends because she doesn't like you.

 

Why doesn't she like you? It doesn't matter. The point is that she doesn't, she really doesn't, you aren't going to make her like you.

 

The more you annoy her and pester her with you emails and cute comments the more that you are putting someone that she doesn't like in front of her face. And people don't like to be bombarded by people they don't like.

 

Now as for you, just because you are a student, doesn't mean that she is going to like you or going to be your friend. The other students are on her friends list because she likes them. That is the criteria for being on someone's friends list.

 

The criteria for dating someone is that they like you and you like them. That's all. No magic fairy dust. No mystery. If they don't like you they won't date you.

[one goal]

The thread that wouldn't die....

 

One goal she isn't your friend and is other student's friends because she doesn't like you.

 

Why doesn't she like you? It doesn't matter. The point is that she doesn't, she really doesn't, you aren't going to make her like you.

 

The more you annoy her and pester her with you emails and cute comments the more that you are putting someone that she doesn't like in front of her face. And people don't like to be bombarded by people they don't like.

 

Now as for you, just because you are a student, doesn't mean that she is going to like you or going to be your friend. The other students are on her friends list because she likes them. That is the criteria for being on someone's friends list.

 

The criteria for dating someone is that they like you and you like them. That's all. No magic fairy dust. No mystery. If they don't like you they won't date you.

 

The question is why doesn't she like me?

 

I never did anything mean to this girl.

[dreamingoftigers]

I didn't do anything though. She has no basis for a restraining order. If she made something up and got one, I'd appeal it all the way to state Supreme Court if I had to.

 

I didn't stalk her!

 

If anyone anywhere ever had the basis for a restraining order it is this woman. She doesn't like you, has made that clear and you won't go away. Your comments in your emails and the sheer number of them constitute harassment. Onegoal, meet restraining order.

[dreamingoftigers]

The question is why doesn't she like me?

 

I never did anything mean to this girl.

 

People don't like each other for a variety of reasons. We don't all by default like one another. Some people we meet and like right away, and some we meet and dislike right off the bat.

 

Mostly it would be something that she was conditioned with socially and emotionally throughout childhood and into adulthood.

 

There may be no single defining factor. She herself may not know why she doesn't like you.

 

If you ask her if she likes you then she will either be honest or she may tell you that she does like you but that your attention is unwelcome. The honest truth is that most people will not tell you that they don't like you because it can appear rude.

 

But all of her actions strongly say that she does not like you. There is no mistaking it.

[dispatch3d]

The question is why doesn't she like me?

 

I never did anything mean to this girl.

 

Are there some other girls in class you have talked to before, or sat by, that may be interested?

[one goal]

If anyone anywhere ever had the basis for a restraining order it is this woman. She doesn't like you, has made that clear and you won't go away. Your comments in your emails and the sheer number of them constitute harassment. Onegoal, meet restraining order.

 

My emails for the most part are class related. So how is that harassment and what do you mean the comments in them?

 

Also she never told me to stop emailing her.

[WillSingForFood]

The question is why doesn't she like me?

 

I never did anything mean to this girl.

 

GOD. Youre annoying. Ive tried avoiding your threads but this one just wont go away.

 

By asking her personal questions when she doesnt want you to is being mean to her. Its you not respecting her. When you disrespect someone, they will be mean to you. You dont have to say mean things to her, throw things in her face or anything like that. Disrespecting someone is one of the worst things you can do, especially your teacher who doesn't want sh*t to do with you. What are you waiting for? Her flipping out on you? Calling you psycho? The last day of class when you offer her goodies and she throws them in your face? Normal guys only need a simple "no" to get the hint and drop it without another question asked. You need someone yelling it in your face for you to start to think that theyre not interested.

[dispatch3d]

Why don't you focus on the girls out there who could be interested in you, or things you are doing in the future where you will potentially meet other women?

[one goal]

Are there some other girls in class you have talked to before, or sat by, that may be interested?

 

There is one really hot girl in my class and I have her number because our first assignment she happend to be my partner.

 

However one small problem. SHE is engaged!

[dreamingoftigers]

My emails for the most part are class related. So how is that harassment and what do you mean the comments in them?

 

Also she never told me to stop emailing her.

 

Anything outside of being class related and the sheer number of the emails you have sent is harassing her. She doesn't need to tell you to stop. You have crossed the line and need to stop. You are harassing her whether or not she tells you to stop.

 

You make personalized comments in them, like about her tattoo. By the way telling her that her tattoo is cute is a form of sexual harassment. You are not to comment on her appearance especially given your history.

[one goal]

Anything outside of being class related and the sheer number of the emails you have sent is harassing her. She doesn't need to tell you to stop. You have crossed the line and need to stop. You are harassing her whether or not she tells you to stop.

 

You make personalized comments in them, like about her tattoo. By the way telling her that her tattoo is cute is a form of sexual harassment. You are not to comment on her appearance especially given your history.

 

So she thinks I'm a perv too now?

 

I only really commented once on her looks. It was when I talked to her about going to the dept head admitting I asked her out. I told her she is a lovely lady but that she's too old for me.

[one goal]

Anything outside of being class related and the sheer number of the emails you have sent is harassing her. She doesn't need to tell you to stop. You have crossed the line and need to stop. You are harassing her whether or not she tells you to stop.

 

You make personalized comments in them, like about her tattoo. By the way telling her that her tattoo is cute is a form of sexual harassment. You are not to comment on her appearance especially given your history.

 

Here is a example of a "cute comment" from a recent email. Doesn't look harassing to me.

 

I can't believe there is only 3 classes left! I'm really going to miss you and the class. One of the most fun classes and one of the better teachers I've had.

[dreamingoftigers]

So she thinks I'm a perv too now?

 

I only really commented once on her looks. It was when I talked to her about going to the dept head admitting I asked her out. I told her she is a lovely lady but that she's too old for me.

 

Your unwillingness to back off and stop flirting with her via email (and yes given the context of the situation that one comment that you provided an example of IS flirting) you are coming across very very predatorial. Being a simple perv would be an improvement at this point.

[one goal]

Your unwillingness to back off and stop flirting with her via email (and yes given the context of the situation that one comment that you provided an example of IS flirting) you are coming across very very predatorial. Being a simple perv would be an improvement at this point.

 

How is saying I'm going to miss her and her class flirting?

 

What do you mean by predatorial? WTF?

[Lilmisus]

AWWWWW! You told her you'll miss her and the class! How sweet! If that doesn't get a response, I don't know what will! I bet a nickel that she'll miss you more! If she responds, she should tell you that..if not, then that will be a huge let down, and I'll be out a nickel.

 

For your next e-mail..or better yet, on the last day of class, when you ask to see her over the summer and to take her out, you should write down your number, give it to her, and ask for her's too! And ask her to reconsider adding you on Facebook, since you would love to keep in touch! And oh, give her your address as well, that way she can come visit you sometime, ya know?? I mean, if you're gonna do everything for and to her, ya gotta do everything. You don't want to lay awake at night this summer thinking "Man..maybe I could have tried harder, or done this differently..she was so into me...."

 

THAT WAY, not only have you said how you think that she's a pretty nice girl, and that you like her tattoo, and that you like her class, and that you want to go out with her, and that you want to know her favorite sports, and that you want to know about her family issues and EVERYTHING else you've asked..but you can actually be able to talk to her on the phone about it! Or in person! Especially since the class will be over, and you wouldn't have to worry about the dean getting involved anymore. I mean..the most she could do then, is get a restraining order against you. What harm will that do? As long as you have a .0743% chance of having her smile at you, so what????

 

GO FOR IT MAN!

[one goal]

AWWWWW! You told her you'll miss her and the class! How sweet! If that doesn't get a response, I don't know what will! I bet a nickel that she'll miss you more! If she responds, she should tell you that..if not, then that will be a huge let down, and I'll be out a nickel.

 

For your next e-mail..or better yet, on the last day of class, when you ask to see her over the summer and to take her out, you should write down your number, give it to her, and ask for her's too! And ask her to reconsider adding you on Facebook, since you would love to keep in touch! And oh, give her your address as well, that way she can come visit you sometime, ya know?? I mean, if you're gonna do everything for and to her, ya gotta do everything. You don't want to lay awake at night this summer thinking "Man..maybe I could have tried harder, or done this differently..she was so into me...."

 

THAT WAY, not only have you said how you think that she's a pretty nice girl, and that you like her tattoo, and that you like her class, and that you want to go out with her, and that you want to know her favorite sports, and that you want to know about her family issues and EVERYTHING else you've asked..but you can actually be able to talk to her on the phone about it! Or in person! Especially since the class will be over, and you wouldn't have to worry about the dean getting involved anymore. I mean..the most she could do then, is get a restraining order against you. What harm will that do? As long as you have a .0743% chance of having her smile at you, so what????

 

GO FOR IT MAN!

 

LOL.

 

My plan for right now is the last day of class if I get to talk to her alone, I'm just going to tell her how nice teacher she was and that. I'll tell her I want to do something nice for her to show her my appreciation and ask if I can take her out to dinner over the summer, or something she wants to do. That way it doesn't sound like I'm trying to score an actual date, rather just trying to be friendly. Then I'll ask for her number.

 

It's always better to get the girls number. That way you have control.

 

If I can't get her alone, I'll just say goodbye and that and when I get home I'll email her with some final thoughts and talk to her about going out to eat.

 

Honestly if I play this right and not make it sound like a date is there a slim chance she might actually agree to do this?