Is there a slight chance this plan would work?

[Kamille]

If so then why does she have other students on her facebook page? So why can they cross the boundary, but I can't?

 

They never hit on her or asked her out.

 

That, or they're related.

 

It doesn't matter why. The only thing you need to know is that she refused your friend request. That tells you all you need to know. She's not interested.

 

Now you're going to say:

 

Why aren't any girls I'm interested in interested in me?

 

Here's why: you're not playing your game right. Instead of chatting up as many girls as possible and trying to see who responds with interest, you focus all your mental energy on one girl, before she's even given you any signs of interest, and then spend months obsessing about her.

 

 

Now you're going to come up with some inane question

 

What do you think my professor thought when I asked her if she liked sports?

 

Did she answer the question? If not, she thought it was unprofessional of you to ask that question.

 

Now you're going to say:

 

I just want to be friends because she seems like a nice gal

 

Yeah, and I would like to befriend Ellen Degeneres. She seems like a nice gal too. Guess, what, it ain't gonna happen for either of us.

[one goal]

They never hit on her or asked her out.

 

That, or they're related.

 

It doesn't matter why. The only thing you need to know is that she refused your friend request. That tells you all you need to know. She's not interested.

 

Now you're going to say:

 

 

 

Here's why: you're not playing your game right. Instead of chatting up as many girls as possible and trying to see who responds with interest, you focus all your mental energy on one girl, before she's even given you any signs of interest, and then spend months obsessing about her.

 

 

Now you're going to come up with some inane question

 

 

 

Did she answer the question? If not, she thought it was unprofessional of you to ask that question.

 

Now you're going to say:

 

 

 

Yeah, and I would like to befriend Ellen Degeneres. She seems like a nice gal too. Guess, what, it ain't gonna happen for either of us.

 

No, she hasn't yet. Last time she replied a couple days ago was strictly class related email I sent her. This email I sent yesterday was class related also, but I just simply asked what sports she likes, and she didn't reply back yet. I noticed whenever I sent an email that had anything to do with going out on a date or something she would never reply.

 

Overall she seems like a shy girl, who only opens up to certain people she likes and trusts. That means students. There are students she likes on a friend level. Lots of em.

[xpaperxcutx]

No, she hasn't yet. Last time she replied a couple days ago was strictly class related email I sent her. This email I sent yesterday was class related also, but I just simply asked what sports she likes, and she didn't reply back yet. I noticed whenever I sent an email that had anything to do with going out on a date or something she would never reply.

 

Overall she seems like a shy girl, who only opens up to certain people she likes and trusts. That means students. There are students she likes on a friend level. Lots of em.

 

Your ability to jump to conclusions about this woman amazes me. You keep implying she's a shy girl, nice gal, etc, yet in all your threads, there has not popped up one evidence that she is any of these things. Which all leads to the point that you're obsessing about someone who's trying to keep her distance from you, yet you are here scheming about worming your way into her life.

[one goal]

Your ability to jump to conclusions about this woman amazes me. You keep implying she's a shy girl, nice gal, etc, yet in all your threads, there has not popped up one evidence that she is any of these things. Which all leads to the point that you're obsessing about someone who's trying to keep her distance from you, yet you are here scheming about worming your way into her life.

 

What I mean in the classroom setting she seems shy, and keeps to herself compared to other teachers I've had.

[dreamingoftigers]

You know next to nothing about this woman. You know what she does for work, some of her personality traits and her appearance.

 

You have mentally filled in the blanks with a fantasy that does not coincide with reality.

 

The reality is that you don't have a chance, never had a chance you have been given multiple reasons why and she is not going to give you one.

 

You may have another chance with a different woman in the future. That will only happen if you sort out your issues. Please read Change Your Brain Change Your Life.

 

Why can you not accept this? Why do you continue in any capacity to pursue this woman? Why can you not link your behaviour with her reactions towards you?

 

What class are you taking?

[Kamille]

I noticed whenever I sent an email that had anything to do with going out on a date or something she would never reply.

 

 

And you think that's because she's shy? Or, maybe, could it be because those emails lack respect in regard to her professional status?

[Art_Critic]

I'd bet anything that her loins are just yearning for you to hit that one goal of hers..

 

Go for it...you only live once...oh.. and nail the sister too...you did say she was hot...

Edited April 21, 2011 by Art_Critic

[one goal]

Class went okay today. No personal talk. She did talk to me about my paper and some corrections that needed for it. I asked her about my grade in there and she says I'm doing fine and have a A.

 

Something I noticed today was she was wearing her hair back. behind her left ear she has a imgage of nuts tatooed. I thought that was nasty.

 

She's still cute though otherwise. I told her happy easter before I left and she said thanks.

 

I probably should have emailed her Happy Easter instead lol.

[Lucky_One]

Class went okay today. No personal talk. She did talk to me about my paper and some corrections that needed for it. I asked her about my grade in there and she says I'm doing fine and have a A.

 

Something I noticed today was she was wearing her hair back. behind her left ear she has a imgage of nuts tatooed. I thought that was nasty.

 

She's still cute though otherwise. I told her happy easter before I left and she said thanks.

 

I probably should have emailed her Happy Easter instead lol.

 

People tend to get tattoos that give them a visual reminder of something important to them. She got a tattoo of nuts in order to remind herself every morning as she brushes her hair not to EVER get involved with a student, much less accept his friend request or answer his intrusive questions about her personal life.

 

Either that, or Mr. Peanut is her lover, and THAT is why she won't date you. His nuts are bigger than yours.

[one goal]

People tend to get tattoos that give them a visual reminder of something important to them. She got a tattoo of nuts in order to remind herself every morning as she brushes her hair not to EVER get involved with a student, much less accept his friend request or answer his intrusive questions about her personal life.

 

Either that, or Mr. Peanut is her lover, and THAT is why she won't date you. His nuts are bigger than yours.

 

ROFL. Seriously though this woman I think might have some issues. Almost 40 single, not married, no kids.

 

Must be something about her personality men don't like and run the other way for.

[Art_Critic]

Must be something about her personality men don't like and run the other way for.

 

Then why haven't you run the other way ?

 

Now.. after seeing her tat you are saying she is the one with the issues..

As long as that type of thinking keeps you from making a bigger fool of yourself then have at it..

[anne1707]

ROFL. Seriously though this woman I think might have some issues. Almost 40 single, not married, no kids.

 

Must be something about her personality men don't like and run the other way for.

 

:lmao::lmao:

[Lorelei_Lane]

ROFL. Seriously though this woman I think might have some issues. Almost 40 single, not married, no kids.

 

Must be something about her personality men don't like and run the other way for.

 

Wow. Although I'm glad you are starting to seem to stop being so damn obsessed with her, I don't think it's fair you're bashing her when you're the crazy dude that wouldn't leave her alone and just be a damn student.

 

Hypocrisy at it's finest ladies and gentlemen.

[one goal]

Wow. Although I'm glad you are starting to seem to stop being so damn obsessed with her, I don't think it's fair you're bashing her when you're the crazy dude that wouldn't leave her alone and just be a damn student.

 

Hypocrisy at it's finest ladies and gentlemen.

 

Well I mean if she came up and asked me out, out of the blue Id still say yes. I get to possibly nail her at least!

 

Honestly though she seems different. Most of the other teachers I've had in college are more friendly, and sociable and talk more about stuff outside of class. This teacher doesn't like to talk much at all unless its students she's friends with.

[Lorelei_Lane]

Well I mean if she came up and asked me out, out of the blue Id still say yes. I get to possibly nail her at least!

 

Honestly though she seems different. Most of the other teachers I've had in college are more friendly, and sociable and talk more about stuff outside of class. This teacher doesn't like to talk much at all unless its students she's friends with.

 

I wouldn't want to talk to you either.

[anne1707]

Strange that. You would think a woman would want to talk to her stalker....

[one goal]

I wouldn't want to talk to you either.

 

I'm talking about the class in general. Except for one of the students she's friends with on facebook. Otherwise she keeps to herself to the class.

[Lorelei_Lane]

Because that's her job. She's there to teach, not be friends, not tell everyone her life story. And you are a jerk for judging her for doing so. Not everyone feels the need to tell everyone their life story at their place of employment. I kept to myself at my old job and people never understood that. It's none of their business what's going on in my personal life, I'm there to work.

[one goal]

Because that's her job. She's there to teach, not be friends, not tell everyone her life story. And you are a jerk for judging her for doing so. Not everyone feels the need to tell everyone their life story at their place of employment. I kept to myself at my old job and people never understood that. It's none of their business what's going on in my personal life, I'm there to work.

 

I'm just saying she could be a bit more friendly in general. She needs to lighten up a bit.

 

I know she says she has family issues which she seems kinda irritated at times. I tried to get her to open up to find out whats wrong but she wouldn't that one day.

[Lucky_One]

I know she says she has family issues which she seems kinda irritated at times. I tried to get her to open up to find out whats wrong but she wouldn't that one day.

 

That was the day that she got your name tattooed on her neck. NUTS.

[one goal]

That was the day that she got your name tattooed on her neck. NUTS.

 

Being serious though, why is it I try to be really nice and understanding towards her, yet she shuts me down?

[Art_Critic]

Being serious though, why is it I try to be really nice and understanding towards her, yet she shuts me down?

 

Because you crossed the line and put her job at risk...

[Lucky_One]

Being serious though, why is it I try to be really nice and understanding towards her, yet she shuts me down?

 

Because she doesn't like you. She wants you to back off, but as your teacher, she isn't allowed to say "F*ck off, you moron."

 

This is basic boy/girl relationship Lesson #1. If someone doesn't want to be with you, then they will shut you down.

[one goal]

Because she doesn't like you. She wants you to back off, but as your teacher, she isn't allowed to say "F*ck off, you moron."

 

This is basic boy/girl relationship Lesson #1. If someone doesn't want to be with you, then they will shut you down.

 

Why is it though girls are less direct when rejecting typically? Just like this teacher wasn't direct and didn't say NO. Just gave hints like the facebook thing and that.

[one goal]

Strange that. You would think a woman would want to talk to her stalker....

 

I don't stalk her.