Author JHS Posted April 25, 2011 Author Posted April 25, 2011 (edited) Wow, that's crazy! Edited April 25, 2011 by JHS
Author JHS Posted July 8, 2011 Author Posted July 8, 2011 I am someone with a victims mentality. If someone doesn't like me it's because something is wrong with them. They have the problem, they are jealous. They are picking on me for that reason. Boohoo right? In relationships, I treated men the same way. Hyper-sensitive, how could you put me in this position, blah blah everything about me and how it made me feel. My recent break-up has been horrible getting over, wanna know why? Because I am a victim, its never my fault, so I dwell on what's been done to me, instead of seeing things how they are. Instead of seeing myself effecting the relationship and it's turn of events I am too self absorbed and only see it for it's effects on me. It has not served me well. I'm trying really hard not to be such a entitled brat and own up to the fact that I have been playing the victim. Examples of VM: I once dated a girl who was upset about her job so I offered to take her to dinner and a movie. At dinner she slammed two martinis and was kind of schlockered. As we walked to the movie she fell on her a$$ in front of people. She referred to that as "the day I let her fall." It was my fault for not catching her. A victim is a type who stomps on your foot and when you scream, "Ow!" she complains that you yelled at her.
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