pippa02 Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 Feeling really horrible today, missing my ex sooo much! don't understand how can go from best friends bf/gf too nothing. Been two months now since the break up! we were so good together! Have been together 4 years not LDR. But now if we were together would have to be LDR because of job opportunities. He says hes hurting so much and he does'nt think I understand that he only did it too be fair on both of us, and didnt think we would cope doing long distance, and didnt want us too do it then end nastily! For the past two months been very limited contact, now im enforcing no contact, although he hasnt actually tried anyway. Gahh just want to stop missing him soo much
Fufu Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 we were so good together! Tell yourself this, it's past. it is not we are so good together now If you are with this guy for a couple of year and then the relationship became LDR due to work or study. This guy doesn't want LDR and breaks up with you, be happy for yourself. It is because you will want a man to be fully committed to you regardless where he is. It's normal to miss him, however if you don't want to feel more worse than MISSING him, better don't contact him at all. I was with my ex for near 3 years. Last year in February, he went overseas to study and the course was going to take him 6 years to complete. Our relationship became LDR. After 8 months of LDR, he broke up with me, saying he doesn't want LDR anymore. It broke my heart tremendously as we already bought engagement rings and he told me we would stick through LDR. At the end of the day, he broke his own promise. Come to think about it, I'm glad I saw this side of him sooner. I wouldn't want a man who doesn't keep his words truly and not sincerely committed to me because the relationship became LDR.
Author pippa02 Posted April 20, 2011 Author Posted April 20, 2011 Thanks fufu, how long has it taken you too be ok? does he ever try contact you?
Fufu Posted April 20, 2011 Posted April 20, 2011 Estimate about 2 months of recovering After he went back to the country in January, he totally completely ignore me. I'm not waiting for him to speak with me again. I'm moving forward Believe in yourself, you will find a man who will choose you actively and be committed to you truly.
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