Author Enchanted Girl Posted April 22, 2011 Author Posted April 22, 2011 To be honest about seeing someone from the get-go when he asked for your number would've avoided this. Look, I'm not bashing you over this. I understand if the guy has stalker tendencies or whatever and you dont wanna be bothered with that. It's cool. It just gets things off on the wrong foot when he wanted your number and you gave it to him, regardless of his intentions, without revealing you had a boyfriend already. That would've stopped me dead in my tracks and any other normal person wanting to hopefully date you. Lesson learned I hope? Well, okay. I just don't want to force the words "I have a boyfriend" into the conversation either because its really awkward if the person isn't even thinking that at all.. I was actually surprised. Maybe that sounds naive, but I've had plenty of guys ask for my number who never asked me out afterwards. They just wanted to talk and be friends and most of them went to that school. But I'll try to find a way to bring it up that doesn't sound forced next time.
OldSkool Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 It just gets things off on the wrong foot when he wanted your number and you gave it to him, regardless of his intentions, without revealing you had a boyfriend already. That would've stopped me dead in my tracks and any other normal person wanting to hopefully date you. Lesson learned I hope? Dude, there is no lesson to be learned. She does not have to modify her behavior just because some silly hypersensitive boys can't handle rejection. YOU have almost Zero dating experience from what I can see. YOU are in no position to be acting like an authority on male/female interactions. YES, I am going to keep calling you out. Maybe it's a NYC thing, but out here in Cali, we don't like people who try to force their opinions down our throats.
Shaun-Dro Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 Dude, there is no lesson to be learned. She does not have to modify her behavior just because some silly hypersensitive boys can't handle rejection. YOU have almost Zero dating experience from what I can see. YOU are in no position to be acting like an authority on male/female interactions. YES, I am going to keep calling you out. Maybe it's a NYC thing, but out here in Cali, we don't like people who try to force their opinions down our throats. Whatever, man. No one was talking to you, was they?
Romeofud Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 When I ask for a chick's math is because Im interested lol. Girls know this the minute they look in my eyes, so no need for guessing games with me.
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