koalabear Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 Hi Everyone! So i had been with a girl for around two years, and she decided she wanted to go on a break (which would only happen if i agreed) but we have still seen each other pretty much everyday since, it has now been 5-6 months and she says we're not on a break any more, which is fair enough. we are still good friends and i still want to get back with her. recently she has made friends with a new guy who she says she likes and she stays over at his house some times. this drives me crazy thinking of what they could be doing. would it be a good idea to stay away from her for a while so i can begin to start thinking properly? the thing is she still wants me to go and see her, still tells me that she loves me(most days), wants to cuddle with me, but dosnt want to be my girlfriend because she dosnt see me in that way anymore. I would just like some advice in what to do so that i can make her want me back as a boyfriend rather than just a friend, it dosnt make sense to me Thanks guys
PelicanPete Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 (edited) Tell her she's gotta pick you as a friend or a boyfriend. It's not fair to be potentially leading you on while her heart is somewhere else. Sometimes girls are just oblivious to the signals they are sending. Reminds me of a video. So just communicate with her, and keep your emotions in check when you talk to her. Sorry didn't really answer your question I think in order to get her back you have to straight up tell her how you feel. It is very hard to get out of the friend zone once your in. It is best to just straight up tell her everything and be honest, then you can either choose to move on or you'll get what you want. Edited April 19, 2011 by PelicanPete
Author koalabear Posted April 22, 2011 Author Posted April 22, 2011 Thanks for the reply, Im just so confused because she is always telling me that she loves me and wants to hug me, she will kiss me on the cheek but wont go further than that. I have been trying to see her less, and when i do see her she says she misses my company. but its really hard not to see her because we only live a 2 minute walk away from each other so what is the point in sitting home alone. we are both at uni and i move back home for good in around two months. i just hope that when this happens she realises that she wants to be with me or at least misses me. what can i say to her to get some time away from her without being mean? i just hope that when im gone she will realise what i mean to her, but living so close isnt helping this! does anybody have any sugesstions?
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