teaforone Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 So, about a week ago the guy i liked asked me if i'd like to come over to watch Doctor Who when the new season started and i agreed. Then, a week went by without talking about it anymore, so as he was dropping me off at my house Sunday night i asked when he'd want to watch it and we agreed on Saturday. But then, we sort of just starred at each other awkwardly during the part where we should have exchanged numbers so we can discuss a time and further details. He deactivated his facebook so we have no way to communicate that way, we have a mutual friend that has both our numbers. I'd get his number from her and bring it up a second time, but i feel kind of pushy and over eager doing that. Plus, i'd feel like a creeper getting his number that way. Should i just wait and see if tries to get in touch with me somehow before Saturday? or just leave it as a miscommunication?
Cee Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 How about you tell your friend to offer the guy your phone number. And then the ball is in his court to call to organize the date.
xpaperxcutx Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 As much as I am a fan of the Doctor and his Tardis, I would bail on a date that requires me to be at someone's place. First of all, it would put me in a sticky situation seeing as census agrees that dates at homes typically lead to sex. If you're not a dine and dash kind of girl, you might want to avoid giving him that idea. Second, it's kind of hilarious that neither of you have exchanged digits beforehand. It tells me the both of you are either dense or completely uninterested about pursuing something serious. Whatever the reason, find a different dating venue, like watching the Dr at a pub.
DreamerGirl27 Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 Don't get his number. Always let the guy pursue you.
Author teaforone Posted April 19, 2011 Author Posted April 19, 2011 As much as I am a fan of the Doctor and his Tardis, I would bail on a date that requires me to be at someone's place. First of all, it would put me in a sticky situation seeing as census agrees that dates at homes typically lead to sex. If you're not a dine and dash kind of girl, you might want to avoid giving him that idea. Second, it's kind of hilarious that neither of you have exchanged digits beforehand. It tells me the both of you are either dense or completely uninterested about pursuing something serious. Whatever the reason, find a different dating venue, like watching the Dr at a pub. Oddly enough none of the dates i've had at someones apt/house have ever led to sex. We actually did what we intended to, eat, watch a movie/tv show, hang out or play video games. Also, the pubs around here probably don't get BBC America on their tv's. Not dense no, just socially awkward and shy when it comes to guys i like.
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