sabienne Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 Had to contact the ex over issues about property we own together, and I feel awful getting yet another round of rejection and cold, callous answers from him. I had held out on NC for close to a week, but hearing from him has propelled me right back to square one again. I don't want to be in contact with him but I have to be and it's making me sad, angry, confused and lonely. I waver between thoughts of how angry I am by what he's done, and thoughts of missing him so completely. I hate this roller coaster and I want to get off. I want to get up and continue on with my life but it's truly feeling impossible at the moment. Just had to get that off my chest. Having a truly horrible "down" day.
smudge21 Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 Sometimes it's good to have a rant, so go ahead. To be honest, time and nc are the only healers here so you have to weather this storm and wait until it clears. It won't happen over night but it will happen, just try to think positive. You will have good and bad but eventually the good will outweigh the bad. Until you're fully cleared up, keep coming on here and sharing your thoughts. I find offering advice to others helps me (like I'm doing here). I guess a problem shared and all that...
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