waynesworld Posted April 19, 2011 Share Posted April 19, 2011 I've only dated a few girls who I would consider conservative. You know the type: shy, passive, reserved conformists who almost never deviate from the "norm" and have very traditional values. In typical LS fashion though, I'm going to use my limited experience to make a sweeping generalization: because these girls are reserved in all other aspects of their life, they're also reserved in their sex life. However, the stereotype/myth tells us that it's actually the shy girls who are the wildest in bed. Is there any truth to this? I'm especially interested in hearing from you closet tigresses. Reveal yourselves! Link to post Share on other sites
Hules Posted April 19, 2011 Share Posted April 19, 2011 Shy girls are shy, the myths are usually quite bull****. Coming from a guy who has dated/relationships mostly with shy girls. They aren't bad in the sack by any means, just don't have deluded fantasies of them doing crazy ****. Link to post Share on other sites
lemonlegs Posted April 19, 2011 Share Posted April 19, 2011 :confused:Well, I'm not a dude, so I couldn't tell you first-hand. Based on what I've heard from my males friends, the shy and reserved girls are quite similar in the sack. I know a girl who's very pretty but shy and reserved. She's been dating her boyfriend for almost 4 years, and they barely sleep together ( I know that's a separate issue altogether) but it's something I could see based on her personality. Another friend told me about a girl I know he slept with who's also quiet and reserved, and he said she was kind of boring and seemed rather uncomfortable. Sure, it may have been other factors, but again, I could definitely see that. And honestly, why would a girl who's boring/shy/reserved be extremely confident and wild in bed in her most vulnerable state when she can't do that fully clothed and not about to be extremely intimate with someone? Link to post Share on other sites
johan Posted April 19, 2011 Share Posted April 19, 2011 Maybe "shy" isn't the right term. A self-conscious girl is probably the least likely to be forthcoming when things get hot. "Conservative" or "innocent" are probably the words I would choose. And there are no guarantees. Sometimes a sweet Catholic girl has her mom whispering in her ear the entire time you're trying to get somewhere with her. If you get turned on by cadavers, you'll enjoy a girl like that. Link to post Share on other sites
neghitzbrah Posted April 19, 2011 Share Posted April 19, 2011 I think almost every girl has the potential to become a freak. It really depends on the type of guy you are. I can be coming from a biased point of view though. MAYBE I only attract girls that are a bit shy when meeting new people. And MAYBE they happen to be a freak in bed. Who knows? But overall, I am a very intimate person (sexually) so that might have a lot of influence. It really depends on who you are and whether you can push the right buttons in a woman to get her sexually stimulated at any moment. The human body and brain does nothing more than react to its surroundings. I bet a girl can bring the freak out in a guy too, but something tells me this wouldn't be that hard. Lol Link to post Share on other sites
BiscuitXOXO Posted April 19, 2011 Share Posted April 19, 2011 I think I'm fun in bed. But I guess it's all relative. It depends on the girl. Some people would consider me shy and quiet; those are the people whose personalities are so much louder than mine (not to be racist, but usually white people.) Among other groups, however, I'm frequently the loud one. (asians lol) ...I guess I'm not a true shy and quiet girl then. Link to post Share on other sites
musemaj11 Posted April 19, 2011 Share Posted April 19, 2011 Lol, this is one of those great myths. Any guy with a lot of experience knows that the sluttiest and most expressive girls are the wildest in bed. I mean just using simple logic, how can anyone think that a girl who is even shy during casual situation is suddenly going to be a nasty slut during intimate moment? Only in the movies maybe. Link to post Share on other sites
orangelady Posted April 19, 2011 Share Posted April 19, 2011 again..more generalizations. It gets tiring. Link to post Share on other sites
musemaj11 Posted April 19, 2011 Share Posted April 19, 2011 And honestly, why would a girl who's boring/shy/reserved be extremely confident and wild in bed in her most vulnerable state when she can't do that fully clothed and not about to be extremely intimate with someone? Exactly. You articulated it better than I did. Link to post Share on other sites
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Crazy Magnet Posted April 19, 2011 Share Posted April 19, 2011 IME shy guys have sucked in bed. Link to post Share on other sites
BigBlack Posted April 21, 2011 Share Posted April 21, 2011 this could be true, there was this blonde nerdy shy girl in my class once who never talked to anyone, but one pubnight she became so wild and started making out with like 10 different guys. All girls are probably wild inside Link to post Share on other sites
J200 Posted April 21, 2011 Share Posted April 21, 2011 (edited) I am very shy and a freak. I think I am extremely anti social; don't talk to anyone, I'm basically a mute etc don't flirt, never ever friendly with guys, do not have any female friends either. I am an adult "loner". When I was in my early 20's I didn't go out and party and club like most party girls so I stayed home and ended up watching tons of porn; in that aspect I am like a guy. I sort of need it to get off. I like things like bdsm, kink.com, hogtied, gangbangs, bukkake, I even watch trannies, gay porn, guys doing themselves with toys and lots of really bizarre stuff (weird Japanese porn where the girl is pretending to be raped etc.) I met a guy from the internet (a fwb) and we have the hottest sex ever. However I am not friendly in real life; I don't talk (to males or females). I just don't like to talk and have a lot of social anxiety. Really dirty things turn me on like the thought of a gangbang or working as a prostitute... sex with strangers... being degraded and humiliated, really rough sex; spitting, choking etc However, you would think I am meek and quite/shy if you saw me. I wouldn't even look at you cause I am anti social. Edited April 21, 2011 by J200 Link to post Share on other sites
lemonlegs Posted April 21, 2011 Share Posted April 21, 2011 I am very shy and a freak. I think I am extremely anti social; don't talk to anyone, I'm basically a mute etc don't flirt, never ever friendly with guys, do not have any female friends either. I am an adult "loner". When I was in my early 20's I didn't go out and party and club like most party girls so I stayed home and ended up watching tons of porn; in that aspect I am like a guy. I sort of need it to get off. I like things like bdsm, kink.com, hogtied, gangbangs, bukkake, I even watch trannies, gay porn, guys doing themselves with toys and lots of really bizarre stuff (weird Japanese porn where the girl is pretending to be raped etc.) I met a guy from the internet (a fwb) and we have the hottest sex ever. However I am not friendly in real life; I don't talk (to males or females). I just don't like to talk and have a lot of social anxiety. Really dirty things turn me on like the thought of a gangbang or working as a prostitute... sex with strangers... being degraded and humiliated, really rough sex; spitting, choking etc However, you would think I am meek and quite/shy if you saw me. I wouldn't even look at you cause I am anti social. No offense, but that's a little bit different. Being shy and being totally anti-social are two totally different things. Someone who's anti-social doesn't have a problem telling someone to "Fu ck off and stop staring" for example, whereas a shy person would blush and turn the other way. Link to post Share on other sites
J200 Posted April 21, 2011 Share Posted April 21, 2011 (edited) No offense, but that's a little bit different. Being shy and being totally anti-social are two totally different things. Someone who's anti-social doesn't have a problem telling someone to "Fu ck off and stop staring" for example, whereas a shy person would blush and turn the other way. I'm both. I tell people to **** off all the time when they stare or look at me because I'm in a pissy mood... I've even said "WTF are you looking at? Do you know me?" at some guy that kept staring. I said it LOUD. I guess I am more anti social. I am definitely not afraid to yell AT ALL. But I can be shy too; only around hot guys I guess or meeting new people. But I am not afraid to make huge scenes if I feel like a cashier is rude to me or if someone offended me etc; I will ask for a supervisor, make a huge scene. I guess I am more anti social than shy. When I was younger I was all shy (not anti social) but still freaky. I didn't have the guts to be anti social. Now that I am older I am not afraid of anyone and not afraid to make a scene and be aggressive. But even in my younger years I was really horny (But truly shy). Edited April 21, 2011 by J200 Link to post Share on other sites
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