musemaj11 Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 Mr Cairo, I think you are one of the finest man on here. That is SO accurate! That's what I've been trying to tell these men but I don't know where their head is... Men want hot women and women want rich men. This is a fact. But the difference is that ask a man if he wants a hot woman and he will unapologetically say 'Yes'. On the other hand ask a woman if she wants a rich man and she will be in denial about it and either say 'No' or she will not give a straight answer.
orangelady Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 Men want hot women and women want rich men. This is a fact. It is fact because you keep hitting or going after women who look like Megan Fox. Look, if I was hot as Megan Fox, I'd definite want a rich man. But most of us girls know where we stand on how we look. So we do not demand to get a rich man. Rich men only go for hot girls. Look at Tiger Wood's ex, Brad Pitt, bla bla. Us Plain Janes or Fugly Janes know that where we stand so we do NOT look for rich men. We look for a guy who is decent and compatible. But the difference is that ask a man if he wants a hot woman and he will unapologetically say 'Yes'. Of course they would. They are not ashamed to declare to the whole world that despite the fact that they don't even look good or are successful, they WANT a hot girl and they even think they deserve one. (not saying that you don't look good or you're not rich because I don't know you) But man...I have some male friends who act like they deserve a hot girl and I'm thinking "Have you even looked in the mirror of late?" On the other hand ask a woman if she wants a rich man and she will be in denial about it and either say 'No' or she will not give a straight answer. This I find wrong because a lot of my girlfriends like to joke about marrying a rich guy, but....we all know its a joke. Who are we kidding? We're not Megan Foxes unfortunately.
Wolf18 Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 I personally don't care if a woman is tall, medium, or short, I have found women of all heights very attractive. I've only met a handful of guys (maybe 2-3, and who were ironically pretty tall) who didn't particularly like tall women, while every other woman seems to have deep seated aestheitc disgust for any guy who is near or shorter than her height. Tall women who "can't" find a man is usually because of their own criteria ( men just can't be shorter or near her height).
musemaj11 Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 (edited) It is fact because you keep hitting or going after women who look like Megan Fox. Look, if I was hot as Megan Fox, I'd definite want a rich man. But most of us girls know where we stand on how we look. So we do not demand to get a rich man. Rich men only go for hot girls. Look at Tiger Wood's ex, Brad Pitt, bla bla. Us Plain Janes or Fugly Janes know that where we stand so we do NOT look for rich men. We look for a guy who is decent and compatible. Of course they would. They are not ashamed to declare to the whole world that despite the fact that they don't even look good or are successful, they WANT a hot girl and they even think they deserve one. (not saying that you don't look good or you're not rich because I don't know you) But man...I have some male friends who act like they deserve a hot girl and I'm thinking "Have you even looked in the mirror of late?" This I find wrong because a lot of my girlfriends like to joke about marrying a rich guy, but....we all know its a joke. Who are we kidding? We're not Megan Foxes unfortunately. Thank you for agreeing with me that women including yourself do want rich men except not all of them are hot enough get themselves one. How are you any different than me then? I did say I want someone like Megan Fox, but I also said that that doesnt mean I would rather die alone if I cant get a woman like her. I know myself and Im fully aware that Im no Austin Green. So I wont be surprised if one day Im only gonna end up with some average jane. But Im not gonna lie nor apologize for what I actually want. Edited April 19, 2011 by musemaj11
orangelady Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 Thank you for agreeing with me that women including yourself do want rich men except not all of them are hot enough get themselves one. How are you any different than me then? I did say I want someone like Megan Fox, but I also said that that doesnt mean I would rather die alone if I cant get a woman like her. I know myself and Im fully aware that Im no Austin Green. So I wont be surprised if one day Im only gonna end up with some average jane. But Im not gonna lie nor apologize for what I actually want. You don't have to apologize for what you actually want. You shouldn't even care about what others think about that but it does show what others think about you. The difference is.......maybe I'm glad now that I'm not hot after all. Since so many guys seem to say they want a hot girl merely because of their looks. And even if I was a hot girl, no I don't necessarily want a rich man now to come to think of it. No one wants to be a second option. I think though, if you want a hot girl, go for it. Go to a gym, dress well, work on your career, whatever it is to get her. Why 'settle'?
musemaj11 Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 You don't have to apologize for what you actually want. You shouldn't even care about what others think about that but it does show what others think about you. I believe men who openly acknowledge that a woman's beauty matters a lot to them is much better than women who deny that a man's money doesnt matter while all those same women 'ironically' always in the end end up marrying men richer than themselves. My issue with women is not necessary because they are gold diggers. But its because they wont admit they are gold diggers. The difference is.......maybe I'm glad now that I'm not hot after all. Since so many guys seem to say they want a hot girl merely because of their looks.Yea but still if you were given a choice right now to be hot, you would be lying if you said you would refuse the offer. And even if I was a hot girl, no I don't necessarily want a rich man now to come to think of it. All things being equal, women will always pick the richest man they can get just like men will always pick the hottest woman they can get under the same condition. I guess its just nature that men want the best product his money can buy while women want the highest bidder. No one wants to be a second option. I think though, if you want a hot girl, go for it. Go to a gym, dress well, work on your career, whatever it is to get her.Im trying my best. Thank you. Why 'settle'?Because its not always 'All or Nothing' in life. Often we have to be content with the best we can get.
orangelady Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 Yea but still if you were given a choice right now to be hot, you would be lying if you said you would refuse the offer. It depends on what kind of person the guy is. I'm not so shallow and crazy to go for someone who is rich but is like 70 years old and is mean and nasty and shallow. All things being equal, women will always pick the richest man they can get just like men will always pick the hottest woman he can get under the same condition. Sorry, not me. I don't pick 'rich-est'. But I believe you would pick 'hot-est'. Coz that's what all women is to you. I don't see a man like that. "Rich/poor/average" Despite being rejected by many men like you who thought I wasn't hot enough for them, I still think respectably of men. I don't pick men based on how fat his bank account is because I have my own job, my own money and my own education. But I do want and need a man for other reasons other than his money. But I know for you, its all about HOTNESS!!! WOOHOO!!!! NOTHING ELSE BUT HOTNESS!!!! YAAA! Because its not always 'All or Nothing' in life. Often we have to be content with the best we can get. If I was that girl you chose to be 'content' with, I'd say "No, don't settle for me. Go be with your Megan Fox."
627 Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 I think different guys have different taste when it comes to height, I prefer shorter women. I am tall (I am 6'1 feet) but still I don't like women close to my height... in general as far as I am concerned height is not high on my priority list, as long as it is not on the extreme. on the other hand I have a guy friend that has a thing for tall women.
musemaj11 Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 It depends on what kind of person the guy is. I'm not so shallow and crazy to go for someone who is rich but is like 70 years old and is mean and nasty and shallow. Sorry, not me. I don't pick 'rich-est'. I said all things being equal. Meaning if two guys were comparably nice and good looking except one is poor and one is rich, which one would you choose? Obviously most if not all women would definitely choose the richest option. On the other hand, under similar all things being equal condition, men would choose the hottest option rather than the richest option. I don't see a man like that. "Rich/poor/average" Despite being rejected by many men like you who thought I wasn't hot enough for them, I still think respectably of men. I don't pick men based on how fat his bank account is because I have my own job, my own money and my own education. But I do want and need a man for other reasons other than his money.Thats because you dont get to pick in the first place. I dont get to pick the kind of woman I can get myself because currently Im not in the position to do that. But Im not gonna lie and say I dont care about a woman's beauty. If I was that girl you chose to be 'content' with, I'd say "No, don't settle for me. Go be with your Megan Fox."No man would tell you that he is settling with you and vice versa.
Andy_K Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 I'm 5'11". My ideal height range is 5'2" - 5'8". I would go outside this range by a couple inches or so for anyone awesome enough, but inside that range is preferable.
Kamille Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 I just realized Musemaj's beliefs are simply this: a fear of failure. By setting the standards to incredibly high, he never actually has to go out there and confront reality. He can also, then, continue to hold ridiculous beliefs about "all women".
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