Dazdnconfuzed Posted April 18, 2011 Posted April 18, 2011 I would hit it... a few times. I would not look at her and think about a house and kids. Those feelings may develop after sex but only after. I typically look for the homely look. Nice hair in a pony tail around the house, simple, book reading, smart, can engage me mentally and physically. Not thin but not super fat.
Rinnix Posted April 18, 2011 Posted April 18, 2011 Nope, not my type. These women are my type(s): http://bit.ly/epTCLh shania twain, alyssa milano, Calista Flockhart. :love: I must agree with these 3. Some others not so much
thatone Posted April 18, 2011 Posted April 18, 2011 the funniest thing to me is, women (albeit mostly younger ones) who only seem to own bikinis and skinny tshirts and jeans somehow think they need to spend thousands of dollars on boob jobs and other such surgeries. are you women telling me you can't spot a guy who is in a bespoke suit versus one who is in something off the rack from mens wearhouse? or one who is wearing the first pair of black shoes he came across at walmart versus the one in italian leather? of course you can. why don't you apply the same principles? save the boob job money, spend it on classy attire/jewelry/etc. not whorish attire, you're never gonna out-whore a 19 or 20 year old in appearance, so why try? if you do try to out-whore the 19 and 20 year olds in appearance any man who does approach you will do so solely because he thinks he can get you in bed quicker than the 20 year old. it reeks of desperation. if all of the women around you wear their hair a certain way and wear the same clothes in a constant attempt to one up each other (common), do something 180 degrees the opposite. if all the women you see have straight hair, perm yours. if all of the women you see on a daily basis wear pants/jeans, wear a skirt or dress. if they all wear too much makeup, wear less. being different will attract attention more than trying to be more same than someone else (which is a silly notion to begin with when you think about it).
thatdog Posted April 18, 2011 Posted April 18, 2011 2 Problems with this girl re relationship material. 1- her looks are 'generic hot'. By that I mean that this kind of girl attracts heaps of guys. And while yes we do all find her attractive there is also more at play. IMO guys like the idea of banging a girl like this because they are universally accepted as hot and therefore there's a sense of achievement especially if you mates know her. You want to sleep with this girl because you want 'bragging rights' as well as the fact that she is attractive. Most guys have their own preferred 'type' though. And that is very rarely this kind of girl. Guys would rather date their preferred type long term than this kind of girl. 2- Fashion. I really don't understand how most girls don't seem to grasp the concept but there IS a huge difference between dressing to look cute, beautiful or sexy. If i see a cute girl I'm attracted to I wanna give them a big hug and do cute or sweet things with them. If i see a beautiful girl I will want to look at them and appreciate that beauty. If I see a sexy girl I want to **** her. If a girl dresses like this she will have a lot of attention from guys. But they will pretty much all just want sex and that's it. You know they say how important first impressions are. If your first impression on a guy makes him think about how much fun it would be to bend you over a table, then it's going to be hard to change that impression in the future when you want him to think about your personality etc etc.
musemaj11 Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 most men want the sweetheart kind of woman as a 'wife'. But the thing is a man has to meet the needs of his heart and his crotch and the problem is that the two don't always want the same thing. This was what happened with tiger woods for example.
thatone Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 (edited) 2- Fashion. I really don't understand how most girls don't seem to grasp the concept but there IS a huge difference between dressing to look cute, beautiful or sexy. If i see a cute girl I'm attracted to I wanna give them a big hug and do cute or sweet things with them. If i see a beautiful girl I will want to look at them and appreciate that beauty. If I see a sexy girl I want to **** her. If a girl dresses like this she will have a lot of attention from guys. But they will pretty much all just want sex and that's it. You know they say how important first impressions are. If your first impression on a guy makes him think about how much fun it would be to bend you over a table, then it's going to be hard to change that impression in the future when you want him to think about your personality etc etc. so so true. men have about 3 different types of attire that are socially acceptable. women have multitudes. a woman that uses that liberty in acceptable appearance to do nothing but attempt to look exactly like someone else (badly) automatically qualifies herself as shallow and superficial, before she even gets to say a word. most men want the sweetheart kind of woman as a 'wife'. But the thing is a man has to meet the needs of his heart and his crotch and the problem is that the two don't always want the same thing. This was what happened with tiger woods for example. i disagree on tiger woods, i think his was more of an example of getting out from under his father's thumb, because the father controlled his entire like from toddler age until the time the father died, including telling him that he was supposed to marry a certain woman and live in a certain place and have a certain number of kids without ever being able to enjoy being single in his 20s. Edited April 19, 2011 by thatone
Nexus One Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 shania twain, alyssa milano, Calista Flockhart. :love: I must agree with these 3. Some others not so much Here's the whole list of names: - Natalie Portman - Emma Stone - Mila Kunis - Kristin Davis - Calista Flockheart - Natalie Imbruglia ( http://bit.ly/hu1r3X ) - Rachel Leigh Cook - Alyssa Milano - Sandra Bullock - Zooey Dechanel - Morena Baccarin - Lucy Liu - Michelle Trachtenberg - Audrey Hepburn - Avril Lavigne - Nelly Furtado - Shania Twain - Christina Milian - Milla Jovovich - Jolene Blalock Many of the women are in that list for more than just looks though. Natalie Portman for example is quite intelligent, studied at Harvard, has done neurological research and published scientific papers on it, speaks Japanese and Israeli. Emma Stone has an amazing personality. (watch the movie Easy A, ok it's a movie and a teen flick at that, but it'll give a glimpse of her personality) Milla Jovovich is besides an actress also a fashion designer, she's well traveled, speaks multiple languages, etc. I've been thinking about shortening the list though, throwing out Avril Lavigne and Nelly Furtado and perhaps some others. Damn, that sounds so superficial and harsh. For example, the only reason Avril Lavigne is in that list is because she looks like the first girl I ever had a crush on. (in primary school) So she's in there for nostalgic reasons.
NoMagicBullet Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 Nope, not my type. These women are my type(s): http://bit.ly/epTCLh What I noticed in those photos is, that whether real or airbrushed/Photoshopped, they all have great-looking skin. I suppose I would notice that, since my skin is far from perfect. Personally, Miss Joness, if I had the money, I would spend it on better skin than bigger boobs. But I want that for me, not because I think it would get a man to marry me. If you start changing your body in the hope that men will like you, love you, and marry you, I think the end result will be disappointment and bitterness.
orangelady Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 Me personally, I don't find her the least bit attractive. Just because a girl is hot, doesn't mean I'm going to want a relationship with her. Looks alone won't cut it. Darn, we need more men like you around.
Professor X Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 Here's the whole list of names: Natalie Portman for example is quite intelligent, studied at Harvard, has done neurological research and published scientific papers on it, speaks Japanese and Israeli. It's called Hebrew not Israeli
NXS Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 She looks too fake/plastic and not very attractive, also the tattoo (ugghh). I like women who are sexy but not in that in-your-face way, it just reeks of attention seeking and fakeness. I've never dated a girl that had breast implants (that I know of anyway) and it would be a deal breaker for me. I wouldn't be able to get past thinking about them during sex.
Nexus One Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 It's called Hebrew not Israeli I know, but just plain Hebrew is the "old version" of the language. Modern Israeli Hebrew is what's currently spoken in Israel. I just sometimes call it Israeli for short. Shalom!
Eclypse Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 (edited) The only reason I don't find her attractive is because she is black. My personal preference is Caucasian girls. Everyone had their own preferences though and I can see how she'd be found to be gorgeous. I see nothing wrong with the way she dresses though. Perhaps I'm in the minority here, but I don't mind girls who dress slutty at all. It's pretty hot. But perhaps my age (20) has something to do with that.. Edited April 19, 2011 by Eclypse Spelling
Stung Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 I'm not a man, but I have dated women in the past and she's not my type. I'm not digging her fashion sense--or at least, her stylist's fashion sense--and I'm not into fake boobs and heavy makeup. I don't mind tattoos and hair dye, including obviously artificial colors (I used to have purple hair, myself). But the blond hair in the 2nd picture doesn't complement her skin tone at all, it looks awful on her IMO. Speaking for my husband, he wouldn't be into her either. I know he'd like her overall shape, but he thinks plastic surgery, lots of makeup, and tattoos are all gross, and he's not really into the hoochie look either--miniskirts, high heels, hairspray. He's into geek girls, sexy librarians, artists or girl-next-door types, casual, retro or bohemian chic.
lino Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 Can't say she's my type looks wise... So to answer the question, no, I wouldn't marry a girl who looks like that.
Darren Taylor Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 Darn, we need more men like you around. There's plenty of men like me around. Look harder.
Pfiend101 Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 I just want to be married to her for one night.
fishtaco Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 I think she's very attractive. I wouldn't say I would just "use her for sex". Given the chance, I would date her, and I would certainly have sex with her. But chances are eventually we'll piss each other off, and a LTR will either not happen or terminate. The reason is, women like that tend to be high maintenance and expensive. And rightly so. Her good looks earned her the right to be that way. She may choose not to be, but usually, in the real world, things don't work out that way. So, being someone that will not bend over backwards just so I can have a good looking woman on my arms, I would try, and I would try to get as far as I could, but eventually I'll hit my limit, and I just won't bend any more. I'm sure that is as unacceptable to her as it is to me. So we will mutually hate each other, and terminate whatever relationship we have. But there are other men that are more compatible with women like this. Just not me. So I wouldn't say someone like her is "to be used for sex", just... not likely to work out given my personality. But given the chance, I'd try anyway. She is very attractive.
Author MissJoness Posted April 19, 2011 Author Posted April 19, 2011 she looks better with darker hair http://www.you-tube-music-videos.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/lola-luv-lola-monroe-pictures-large.jpg
Lucky_One Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 Three full pages of replies about how some men would (for the most part) only want to bang her and how not a single man to this point has said that they would marry a woman based on hotness with no consideration to personality - and all you can reply is about her hair color?
Author MissJoness Posted April 19, 2011 Author Posted April 19, 2011 Three full pages of replies about how some men would (for the most part) only want to bang her and how not a single man to this point has said that they would marry a woman based on hotness with no consideration to personality - and all you can reply is about her hair color? Yeah, personality matters.
musemaj11 Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 MissJones, I think you are obsessed with this woman more than any man.
Feelin Frisky Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4018/5167217942_3ca20b3766_z.jpg Do you think she is hot? When you consider girls who look like this for long term relationships or just sex? I know alot of women aspire to look like this, with the big boobs, rear end, and very small waist--some of us get plastic surgery for it.. but I wonder if men just like to look at these women or do they really consider them for long term. She doesn't appeal to me much but if the question is about beauty which is "over-packaged" I'd definitely say simple natural beauty is much more appealing. I am of course white (I'll have my avatar back up some day I hope) but women of color appeal to me often for simple understated beauty (not like the girl in the photo). Smooth even complexions beat freckle faces like mine. I've seen pretty face in every ethnicity but beauty can become somewhat ugly if it belies a "neurosis". If the beauty is there to begin with women should have faith that we men will definitely notice and don't need breast implants, heavy eye-liner, "big hair".
Rinnix Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 Many of the women are in that list for more than just looks though. Natalie Portman for example is quite intelligent, studied at Harvard, has done neurological research and published scientific papers on it, speaks Japanese and Israeli. Emma Stone has an amazing personality. (watch the movie Easy A, ok it's a movie and a teen flick at that, but it'll give a glimpse of her personality) Milla Jovovich is besides an actress also a fashion designer, she's well traveled, speaks multiple languages, etc. I've been thinking about shortening the list though, throwing out Avril Lavigne and Nelly Furtado and perhaps some others. Damn, that sounds so superficial and harsh. For example, the only reason Avril Lavigne is in that list is because she looks like the first girl I ever had a crush on. (in primary school) So she's in there for nostalgic reasons. I do agree with a few a the women (in regards to being attractive) I'm sure they all do have something to offer to the table other then looks too. I like how they all have different looks, and most of them have a classy look. Oh how I love Kristin davis & Sandra Bullock too. Though I find that Morena Baccarin looks a lot nicer with long hair.
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