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Sex for first time, should it be planned, spontaneous, etc..?


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Sure. Take your shirt off, too. And talk to her. Say something like, "I want to feel you against me."

 

In general, women are turned on by words more than by visuals. We would rather read porn than look at porn. We like romantic love-making movies (good gosh, you two need to start watching The Tudors - wowza there is some hot sex there) rather than a flick of a roomful of barely-legal sorority girls getting pounded by 12 inch black d*cks (just read current porn titles on my cable channels - is that REALLY what is in vogue now??).

 

So talk to her. I want to feel you. I want to touch you. Your skin is so soft. You smell so good. You are amazing. You are so sexy. You are so beautiful. Your hair turns me on. Touch me like this. What do you want me to do to you? Does this feel good? Show me where you want me to touch you. I could eat you alive. I love being with you. Kiss me again.

 

And if you feel really really stupid saying all of this out loud, then practice it when you are alone. Say these things in your car, or in the shower. Say them to your cat (but ONLY if no one else is around!!) Say them until they are second nature and come out of your mouth effortlessly.

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Sure. Take your shirt off, too. And talk to her. Say something like, "I want to feel you against me."

 

In general, women are turned on by words more than by visuals. We would rather read porn than look at porn. We like romantic love-making movies (good gosh, you two need to start watching The Tudors - wowza there is some hot sex there) rather than a flick of a roomful of barely-legal sorority girls getting pounded by 12 inch black d*cks (just read current porn titles on my cable channels - is that REALLY what is in vogue now??).

 

So talk to her. I want to feel you. I want to touch you. Your skin is so soft. You smell so good. You are amazing. You are so sexy. You are so beautiful. Your hair turns me on. Touch me like this. What do you want me to do to you? Does this feel good? Show me where you want me to touch you. I could eat you alive. I love being with you. Kiss me again.

 

And if you feel really really stupid saying all of this out loud, then practice it when you are alone. Say these things in your car, or in the shower. Say them to your cat (but ONLY if no one else is around!!) Say them until they are second nature and come out of your mouth effortlessly.

 

Just want to say thank you. You have given me some really good advice, I appreciate you sharing your knowledge with us loveshackers! :)

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