Fufu Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 shawn923: For the situation now, I sincerely believe you have to focus on yourself first. Move on and be happy
nana841121 Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 Fool me once shame on u fool me twice, shame on me
radiodarcy Posted April 22, 2011 Posted April 22, 2011 @Fufu at first that sounds so selfish, but is the 100% right thing to do! I really didnt think when i responded to her, I just DID it. And besides, all i did was ask what she wanted, who knows she coulda gave a huge apology, or matured up and asked to talk and explain some things. When she replied "why do u hate me" i knew she didnt want anything and is still playing games like a fawking child. so i told her stop bothering me and left it alone... I still wonder why she cant seem to understand this. I dont "hate" her. Shes prolly trying to get me to feel guilty for what im doing, guilty for "ignoring her"... yea right. And i think the new guy knows who i am, and knows im the ex... I wonder how he feels when they're always around me. Im sure he feels uneasy... he never looks my way or at me however. So he may not know who i am at all... eh - - i probably would have responded if she had sent me the first text too. but after that immature "why do you hate me" line yeah - - i would have let it drop. but that's just me. at least you know now that she's being gamey and immature because you're not giving her any more attention. which means you pretty much know all you need to know to ignore her next time
Author shawn923 Posted April 22, 2011 Author Posted April 22, 2011 eh - - i probably would have responded if she had sent me the first text too. but after that immature "why do you hate me" line yeah - - i would have let it drop. but that's just me. at least you know now that she's being gamey and immature because you're not giving her any more attention. which means you pretty much know all you need to know to ignore her next time Exactly... I am now at 2 weeks NC... And i can honestly say i feel much better as a person in general than i did 2 weeks ago. Seeing her kiss another man in front of me was kinda the last straw. It showed me her true colors. There is NO WAY she loved me as much i did her, if she loved me at all. Thats telling me she doesnt respect me or our relationship by pulling some crap like that. I thought she was a better person than that... (i mean dont get me wrong, if im the one wrong here, let me know. If i somehow deserved to be hurt by seeing her kiss her new bf, please lemme know...) Well, it would just so happen that i have a date this weekend with a cute girl from school i met monday, the SAME DAY i saw my ex kiss her new boyfriend... Guess i'll take this as a sign. Time to start looking ahead:bunny:
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