leysayin Posted April 18, 2011 Posted April 18, 2011 It’s been 2 days since my date stopped replying me after I threw messages that were demanding of him. We knew each other for 3 weeks plus now so its at a very early stage. I was at fault but he could have replied after repeated attempts from my side. My plan is to wait for 2 more days before dropping him a message. But what should i type in the message? “So are things over for us?” / “Can I know your decision regarding us?” / Or what else would be better and would save me some pride too?!
kiss_andmakeup Posted April 18, 2011 Posted April 18, 2011 I had no idea what you were talking about until I dug up your previous threads. It appears you've posted 4 or 5 threads in the past 3 days that are all basically the exact same thing. Is it because you're not getting the answer you want? People keep telling you that you came off as needy, desperate, and incredibly insecure and I have to agree. All very unflattering traits especially for 3 weeks in. Yes, you blew it, no, you shouldn't try to contact him again. He has already written you off (and I can't say I blame him). Move on, date someone else. It was 3 weeks, not 3 years. And relax next time. Don't be so freakin' intense.
Author leysayin Posted April 18, 2011 Author Posted April 18, 2011 I had no idea what you were talking about until I dug up your previous threads. It appears you've posted 4 or 5 threads in the past 3 days that are all basically the exact same thing. Is it because you're not getting the answer you want? People keep telling you that you came off as needy, desperate, and incredibly insecure and I have to agree. All very unflattering traits especially for 3 weeks in. Yes, you blew it, no, you shouldn't try to contact him again. He has already written you off (and I can't say I blame him). Move on, date someone else. It was 3 weeks, not 3 years. And relax next time. Don't be so freakin' intense. Thank you. I know how unflattering i am now and i have lost myself over the years after three failed rships which includes one cheating and one lying cases. They made me become insecure, or rather i chose to let myself be insecure. Yes he has written me off so i'm not going to contact him. It's game over. Thank you for your help. It's time for me to find myself back.
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