Medcane26 Posted April 18, 2011 Posted April 18, 2011 I dont think that's what NC was designed for. NC is for you to heal and not let yourself go through a roller coaster of emotions. I am on day 5 and it kills me inside to keep this up but its the only way to really move on with life.
shapp Posted April 18, 2011 Posted April 18, 2011 (edited) I did nc for 5 days, I was doing it also for him to come back even though its said that nc is for you to move on , anyway he did come back, and we starting seeing each other again, but our main problem was him drinking and disrespecting me, and it was painful, he moved with his mom, and he stop drinking for about a week, going in his mom house early, trying to do better i thought. yesterday we were ate the park, we didnt go together but we talked, any way there it go drinking again, i did not bother him much at the park, but i did see him keep drinking. I got ready to leave and i went over he looked at me like i was crazy saying i didnt have to come over. i came over for this reason and that reason none of which i came over just to say i was leaving he was mean to me i did not hear from him after i left it was about 6:pm and now its 7:47 am the next morning. i will not be communicating with him or answering his calls again nothing has change, athough he lives with his mom, still i am glad I do not have to face them drunk and high episodes. so just be sure thats what you want. take alook at what the relationship was really like for you, if its worth saving save it. i think he will contact you again my situtation I am not sure, but I know I want contact him its time for me to move on I deserve better than this. good luck:o Edited April 18, 2011 by shapp
Author whoknowswhattodo Posted April 18, 2011 Author Posted April 18, 2011 (edited) I did nc for 5 days, I was doing it also for him to come back even though its said that nc is for you to move on , anyway he did come back, and we starting seeing each other again, but our main problem was him drinking and disrespecting me, and it was painful, he moved with his mom, and he stop drinking for about a week, going in his mom house early, trying to do better i thought. yesterday we were ate the park, we didnt go together but we talked, any way there it go drinking again, i did not bother him much at the park, but i did see him keep drinking. I got ready to leave and i went over he looked at me like i was crazy saying i didnt have to come over. i came over for this reason and that reason none of which i came over just to say i was leaving he was mean to me i did not hear from him after i left it was about 6:pm and now its 7:47 am the next morning. i will not be communicating with him or answering his calls again nothing has change, athough he lives with his mom, still i am glad I do not have to face them drunk and high episodes. so just be sure thats what you want. take alook at what the relationship was really like for you, if its worth saving save it. i think he will contact you again my situtation I am not sure, but I know I want contact him its time for me to move on I deserve better than this. good luck:o I was wondering if she would come back? Idk that's what is killing me. She acts like this sweet good church virgin girl but she isn't and I miss her. She don't drink but I was tapping that because we were engaged. I still got a picture of her and her tits I want to send to her mom and be like " here's your little angel - Hor" but if I did that she wouldn't be back then. I want her back so bad and don't know what to do? Any advise? Edited April 18, 2011 by whoknowswhattodo
Fufu Posted April 18, 2011 Posted April 18, 2011 No body will know if she will ever come back. Even so, maybe she herself also don't know. Which is why NC is so important for us to heal our emotional wounds to move on and move forward. Don't dwell on the past anymore.
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