lawn_gnome11 Posted April 18, 2011 Posted April 18, 2011 (edited) hi, Im 23 years old and a university student. At a recent end of year faculty party a girl that i had become friends with over the course of the year began hitting on me. She had been drinking a bit but not a lot, and has a boyfriend, so i decided not do anything about it. This seemed to annoy her a bit. The next day she apologized for hitting on me and said she likes hanging out with me. I figured it was just a one time thing. But she then sent me 50-60 text messages over the next two days, talking about nothing specific, but giving me the occasional compliment. Over the previous 5 months that i have known her she sent me maybe 5 texts. I really like her, and would like to ask her out, but i'm afraid if she says no it will ruin the friendship. Is she into me? what should i do? Edited April 18, 2011 by lawn_gnome11
Eddie Edirol Posted April 18, 2011 Posted April 18, 2011 So what if she says it ill ruin the friendship. Is a friendship what you want? No its not, because you like her. So now you have to make a decision. Bottom line, im pretty sure she will friend zone you if she doesnt like you. But arrange a meeting, have some fun, go for a kiss at the end of the date. if she recoils, then youre friend zoned. Act fast, dont waste your time. After that, you dont get another chance. So if she keeps contacting you, dont let her waste your time, or texts, unless you are going to use her to hook you up with her friends. BTW, if at that time she wont hook you up with her friends, and she wont advise you how to improve yourself to be hooked up with her friends, she wont be a good friend to you.
creighton0123 Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 Run away. No, really. Run. You do not want to get involved with someone who suddenly and spontaneously sends you that many text messages. Run away. Don't look back. Texting is evil.
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