hxcpanda Posted April 18, 2011 Posted April 18, 2011 Okay, so me and my ex dated for about 2 months, but alot happened in those two months and I fell in love, quickly. She was 15 and I was 17...she is now 18 and Im 20. We thought she was prego, but that turned out to not be true...we broke up cause, lets face it, I was obsessive and way to clingy. This was about 2 1/2 years ago. I moved across the country (from Ohio to Arizona) for 1 1/2 years of that. I dated 2 chicks that ment nothing to me after I dated her (regret doing that). Once I came back, I got a job at walmart in the town she is from, and she wanted to meet up for lunch. We had lunch, and it was really great. No akwardness, and laughs. She often starts the conversations we have through texts, which has always been normal for us, and I start some too. Lately, she has been really bugging me about wanting to hang out, and after a few attempts that didnt work because of reasons for both of us, we should be hanging in the enxt few days. She invited me over to her house to jus hang and watch a movie. Her parents wont be there, her brother will be, but he was a good friend of mine when me and her where dating. There is one more thing I should mention...she is dating someone right now. That only hurts a little, but what hurts worse is he treats her like poopy. Im usually one of the first she talks to about all this...............I still love her more than anything, and I need to know if these signs Im reading right or not...cause Im starting to get the feeling there is a possibility of an "us" again. Help?
Trovador Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 Leave her alone, she has a boyfriend and you are being friendzoned... But maybe you like the rol of confidant and best male friend so you should cultivate said friend zone, but be careful, the other guy could beat the **** out of you, save if he thinks you are a gay person, so in this case he will be grateful for your efforts in hanging out and shopping with his girlfriend... It surely must be lots of girls in your town, you should test the waters, so to speak...
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