LadyD06 Posted April 18, 2011 Posted April 18, 2011 So i've been dating "Mr. Big" for 7 months exclusively and we've talked about being together long term and talked about kids and he's ready to settle down or so he says; BUT THE THING IS-- i have a three yr old son and we've gotten pretty deep in out relationship so far that he's asked to meet my son. that made me very happy and secure in out relationship. About a week later i had to work late on a monday and a tuesday so i couldnt go one this date he had planned for us. so come wednesday i met him at his house, and he basically says that there's no future with us.........WTH i know. he thinks i was lying about working late etc. THEREFORE he needs to make up his mind cause this is the second time this has happened!!! another reason is this is the second time that he says theres no future but there are so many signs that he doesnt even know whether to let me go or keep me. After the 'NO FUTURE' talkk..... -he still wants to see me as regularly as we were seeing ea before the 'no future' thing -after 7 months he said he love me. -he mentioned meeting my son again. -introduced me as his gf and the past 7 months he hadnt... WHAT GIVES? HOW DO I GIVE HIM AN ULTIMATUM OR IS THAT EVEN THE RIGHT THING TO DO IN THIS SITUATION.
Eddie Edirol Posted April 18, 2011 Posted April 18, 2011 Soundsd like he has a trust issue. First of all, if he is so suspicious about you, then you cant flake on him when he makes plans with you. But you also should communicate with him that you want to be with him only, and if he doesnt want to trust you, then you have to bail. he wont trust you unless he wants to. And he wont want to if you give him reasons not to.
Author LadyD06 Posted April 18, 2011 Author Posted April 18, 2011 but my thing is that when we do go out and i goto his place its like we never really "broke up" so it makes me mad everytime i leave him "will that be the last time i see him, is he going to just stop all contact with me??" it very frustrating, looks like i'm have to sit and have a lonnngg talk lol i know how much guys LOVE those
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