confused_blondie Posted April 17, 2011 Posted April 17, 2011 my story: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t270805/ Its now been 6 weeks since my ex broke my heart. I thought it would have been easier but its not. I wish i could stop missing him. I've tried everything: Going out with friends, keeping busy, dating, I'm even moving abroad for 2 years as its something I've always wanted to do. I should be so excited about my new adventure to abu dhabi but I can't stop missing him. Every time I think I'm moving on something sends me backwards. When does it get easier? When do you stop missing them as much?
D-Lish Posted April 17, 2011 Posted April 17, 2011 I think it happens in small steps initially. A step or two forward, and one back. 6 weeks is still fresh. You're doing everything you can to push through this- and you have to keep that up! It's been a week since my break up, and I had some days when I felt really good- but today I have regressed. Focus on how great this adventure is going to be for you. I think starting over in a new place is going to be a really good thing.
b_rouse Posted April 18, 2011 Posted April 18, 2011 I gets a lot easier! Believe me. I'm on month 5, and I feel indifferent towards him. Just remember that everyone is different. I remember when I was on week 8, I kept thinking, each day I'm away from him, is another day he gets closer to her and further from me (we were together for a little over a year). Each day it gets easier and easier, until you realize you haven't thought of him for a full day and a half. I reached that point on month 4. But like I said, people heal differently. You just have to find whatever it is that makes you happy and do it. Just don't quit healing if you think it's not working. It all takes time.
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