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How to get past the lies?


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Hey everyone, I am not a new memeber just changed my name so nothing gets revealed. I am so confused. My friends don't have any answers for me...

 

On and off relationship for almost 2 years. We have been strong for months now. However, there is this girl that he was just "friends" with while we were apart. She had serious love for him, but he claims the feelings were not mutual because of me. He also said nothing happened between them, but my friends told me otherwise. When we got back together, I told him I would not stand for their friendship because of her feelings. He completely understood. We both agreed to move ahead and forget the past. (It was hard because I felt that he left me for her.) They work together... so of course he's going to see her and talk to her, no biggie.

 

He promised me that since he laid things on the line with her, that she has not tried anything. We live in a small town and everyone knows everyones business. My friend told me that she was blowing his phone up and he told her he was with me and to stop texting and he'll talk to her later. Now I want to look through his phone and I want to punch her... but I am more grown up than that.

 

2 days prior, he had promised me that she hasn't texted or called. But she told people she did and she was kind of humiliated how he shut her out...

My questions... why did he lie? And how do I deal with this girl when she clearly still wants him?

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