bonine Posted April 17, 2011 Posted April 17, 2011 Hello again everyone, Another twist to the insanity that is my relationship. As you might have read in my previous post my gf has decided to go on a break to figure out if this is something she wants. NC has really been pushing me to the brink of my tolerance, I have almost caved in several times. The urge to call can be unbearable but I have stayed strong. Now the twist: I got an email from her friend asking if I would like to go to the beach with her and my 'ex' in a month. Confused I asked when this plan was made and her friend replied last night, that my ex suggested it and wanted her to rely the plan to me. I wrote back even more confused and her friend responded that she missed me terribly and told her that we would most likely get back together. I am in shock and ironically even more anxious. My question to you all is if she misses me so much why not call me and tell me that? If she thinks we will get back together why aren't we together? I really can't make sense of her asking her friend to reach out to me about a trip. What do you all make of this? As always thanks for listening!!
smudge21 Posted April 17, 2011 Posted April 17, 2011 Just tell the friend that if your ex was keen to get back, then surely she'd be the one getting in touch. Then stay NC.
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