support Posted April 17, 2011 Posted April 17, 2011 I will keep it short: 1. We had a great 4 year LDR relationship with my ex. 2. She wanted to be more. She wants family and marriage in the future but she knows that its difficult for us. 3. We tried to break up for almost 7 months and finally i think we did 4 months ago. 4. We agreed on many things: We will try to work on ourselves and when we are over each other we will try to be friends. 5. Since she wants a guy she can create a future, she said she will not date a guy until she is sure there may be a future. 6. I told her I cant wait until she will find someone to move on. She agreed that if that will make me get over her, its better for me to have rebounds. 7. We will talk to each other once in a week. No contact when I am out of my country and when I am in her country. No limit for emails etc. We did this agreement on chat cz it is impossible to talk about these things face to face with her cz of emotions. After this agreement I felt a confidence boom in me. She broke our agreement by calling just 2 days later cz she felt stressed and in panic etc. After a few weeks, i left my country for a few weeks and that trip included her country at the end. I wasnt planning to tell her but at the end I told her that I will be there also. Before I arrive there she sent me simple mails first then some harsh ones with so much emotions. When I was in her country she tried to reach me many times. Later she made up a problem with her laptop. At the end I agreed to meet for a coffee. She didnt bring the laptop I asked her how she was doing about dating and she asked me the same and I told her that I met with a few girls but nothing serious. I felt that she was almost crying. Later I told her to bring me the laptop. She agreed but later she said she cant come cz "she knows that I am with other girls and she is so hurt and she is still in love with me". I came to the place where I invited her for only fixing her laptop but she didnt come and sent a sorry sms. Then I replied her "I did what a friend should do and came here but she didnt so...Bye forever". She didnt take it seriously first then later she became crazy with so many calls and smss. I didnt pick up and didnt reply. 2 days later she said she is begging me and wants to talk. I finally replied "come ... at 8 bla bla". She came to me without laptop again and we didnt talk about anything...we hugged each other, kissed each other and had sex until I left her country and it was 3 hours later. Later she always tried to violate the agreement we had. She is a shy girl in general, i know she loves&needs me, she knows I love her. She send me 2 smss in the last month with a content like this: "I wish u happy birthday. I wish I would be able to tell you I wanted to be with you today but I already understood you dont want that" She asks me questions like "How many girls you have after me" as jokes. I am a totally different person compared to person she broke up and I dont answer her questions or any comments similar to hers. I want her back and I am afraid to get a rejection. Thats why I am trying to be careful about breadcrumbs. What do you advice guys? Am I close to be back with her or this is just a game?
DenverBachelor Posted April 17, 2011 Posted April 17, 2011 Why don't you date a girl in your country? Long distance relationships seldom work. You should be dating someone you can actually see on a regular basis.
Author support Posted April 17, 2011 Author Posted April 17, 2011 Travelling from one country to another a lot cz of business and I am going to her country most. Plus, love happens doesnt matter where you are Why don't you date a girl in your country? Long distance relationships seldom work. You should be dating someone you can actually see on a regular basis.
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