jane100 Posted April 17, 2011 Posted April 17, 2011 Penis size doesn't matter that much actually despite all the blahblah, its a bit of fun i guess if its big and i've met quite average guys who think they're big, lol. Possibly one of the most attractive and sexually beguiling man i ever dated had a smaller-than-average-penis. needless to say, it never bothered me. i feel at a loss with this "big dick" culture that surrounds us, it really means very little, ironically, at the end of the day. its demeaning to men, and demeaning to women. the difference is usually half an inch fgs, people need to grow up and get real.
harmfulsweetz Posted April 17, 2011 Posted April 17, 2011 I'm not really one to judge a guy based on that, if it feels good, then I'm happy. It's not the equipment, but how you use it that counts. Sure, no doubt there are women who prefer 'em larger, smaller, average, whatever, just like there are some men who prefer big breasts, small breasts, average breasts. The last guy I was with was average, in both length and girth, and it felt perfectly good to me. I've been with a guy who was quite a lot below the average (IMO) before, and it didn't satisfy me but that may have been because of the way he used it.
kiss_andmakeup Posted April 17, 2011 Posted April 17, 2011 I have not found the height-to-penis correlation to hold true in my experiences. My very first boyfriend was rather tall (6'4") and his was the same size as my current boyfriend's who is 5'10". The biggest one I have been with was on a guy who was 5'8".
threebyfate Posted April 17, 2011 Posted April 17, 2011 Yes, there's strong correlation between height and penis size. Same goes for thumb/shoe size and penis size. That's why I was so attracted to my husband. The first time I met him, he was wearing massive snow boots and I thought, "WOW, he's HUUUUUGGGGEEEE!"
fortyninethousand322 Posted April 17, 2011 Posted April 17, 2011 Yes, there's strong correlation between height and penis size. Same goes for thumb/shoe size and penis size. That's why I was so attracted to my husband. The first time I met him, he was wearing massive snow boots and I thought, "WOW, he's HUUUUUGGGGEEEE!" I was at a party several years ago and someone asked me what shoe size I was. I replied that I was size 14 and apparently I said it loud enough that a cute girl nearby overheard. She shot me this look like she was checking me out or something. Of course, I was shy and didn't even talk to her at all, but I later saw her with her boyfriend so I guess it kind of came out in the wash.
BigBlack Posted April 17, 2011 Posted April 17, 2011 you guys are all wrong, height has nothing to do with penis size but i think natural muscles do, if a guy's body is natrually atheletic and has muscles, most likely his penis will be big too
threebyfate Posted April 17, 2011 Posted April 17, 2011 I was at a party several years ago and someone asked me what shoe size I was. I replied that I was size 14 and apparently I said it loud enough that a cute girl nearby overheard. She shot me this look like she was checking me out or something. Of course, I was shy and didn't even talk to her at all, but I later saw her with her boyfriend so I guess it kind of came out in the wash.I was just goofing around. How long are your thumbs?
Irishlove Posted April 17, 2011 Posted April 17, 2011 I had a bf who was 10inches and it was no fun. My MM isn't big but it fits perfect, great girth and curve. STBXh is 7 and decent girth but I get off on MM I guess because I'm in love. I get off knowing it's him inside of me.
january2011 Posted April 17, 2011 Posted April 17, 2011 Bringing the usual list of most desirable traits: Tall Handsome Nice body Has a good job and makes good money Has a nice size penis that is completely functional Yeah, about that...had that and more. But he was a dick. So his personality cancelled out all those "desirable traits."
AmEricanWomann Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 A big penis is nice to look at and of course the physical sensations of filled by a large member are very pleasurable, but unless a man is freakishly small, its not a deal breaker. I Height, however, is a deal breaker. I've tried to date men that were shorter than me, but I felt zero physical attraction. There is nothing like being wrapped in the big strong arms of a tall, broad shouldered, solidly built guy. I love looking up into a man's eyes or resting my head on his chest.
Author Mrlonelyone Posted April 21, 2011 Author Posted April 21, 2011 A womans preference for a man who's taller than her only really becomes a problem when the woman is in say the top 1/4 of women in terms of height. Such women are going to be taller than 50 to 75% of men. Then there are men who are shorter than all but 25% of men. Such men will be shorter than 75% of women. So fewer women will be available to them. In either case one variable like that should not be a make or break. Get 90-95% of what you want in a man... who's an inch or three shorter than you... especially if you are a particularly tall woman... why not take that 90- 95%?
jane100 Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 The idea that size is important - its just become part of the jokey superficial sexualisation of everything to a pathetic level. Apparently, I am also meant to look at men's "bums" to see if they are sexy and I am even meant to choose this on a stupid dating site I looked at. I think its a completely insane way of looking at the world.
AmEricanWomann Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 A womans preference for a man who's taller than her only really becomes a problem when the woman is in say the top 1/4 of women in terms of height. Such women are going to be taller than 50 to 75% of men. Then there are men who are shorter than all but 25% of men. Such men will be shorter than 75% of women. So fewer women will be available to them. In either case one variable like that should not be a make or break. Get 90-95% of what you want in a man... who's an inch or three shorter than you... especially if you are a particularly tall woman... why not take that 90- 95%? Because attraction can't be forced. As I said, I've dated guys that are shorter than me and I had no attraction to them. That wasn't fair to them or me. I'm only 5 foot 6, so most guys are taller than me, but I live in an area with alot of latino guys and they tend to be on average shorter then native born American men. I wont ever go out with someone I'm not attracted to again. It would be like dating a member of my own gender. I might have a female friend who is wonderful, kind, sweet and funny, but I'm not turned on by females, so I can't date or sleep with one. Its the same with a man I'm not attracted to. No matter how nice his personality is, if he physically turns me off, that's not going to change and we'd both wind up resenting each other.
veggirl Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 Geez people are quite exact w/ their measurements. Wish I had a ruler handy for reference, I could work out what size I like I know 4 in is gonna be way too small..holy cow. My ex was prob 4 or 4.5, it was little!! And he came uber fast. So annoying! I lost my virginity to him, so I didn't know any better. Now, too small or too fast is a DEAL-BREAKER! I'm actually probably TOO picky when it comes to the sex I expect, but eh. Oh well Any correlation w/ size and how long they last?
AmEricanWomann Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 Geez people are quite exact w/ their measurements. Wish I had a ruler handy for reference, I could work out what size I like I know 4 in is gonna be way too small..holy cow. My ex was prob 4 or 4.5, it was little!! And he came uber fast. So annoying! I lost my virginity to him, so I didn't know any better. Now, too small or too fast is a DEAL-BREAKER! I'm actually probably TOO picky when it comes to the sex I expect, but eh. Oh well Any correlation w/ size and how long they last? He was 4.5 inches when erect? Yowza...now that's just sad.
Author Mrlonelyone Posted April 21, 2011 Author Posted April 21, 2011 It should be mentioned that there is little correlation between erect and flaccid size. However the larger a man is flaccid the less he will grow. I don't think there is a correlation between size and lasting long. That is more of a function of a males experience. The more sex a man has had the more it will take to get him off. A man who's a virgin will likely be so overwhelmed by the stimulation that they will get off right away. That said a virgin who's a certain age and has masturbated allot will also desensitize himself and as a result last longer. It is actually a danger for men that we could become more accustomed to our hand. Then once we have sex with a woman it's not very good. Since a man can get himself off by hand within a few minutes, a vagina may not be as able to get him off. Consider that when watching porn, straight, gay or transgender, a man will have to play with themself to get off. After professional screwing and sucking probably better than what you get out in the real world (from sheer practice) they have to play with it. TLDR:A mans lasting time is more of a function of how good the womans vagina is and his sensitivity to touch, than how big the mans penis is.
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