shapp Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 My boyfriend left, I did nc for 5 days. it worked he was right back in my life. trying to make a long story short. Drinking was a big problem in our life on his part, anyway, he left and went back to his mom house, where he is living now, he say he is trying to change meaning stop drinking and hanging in the clubs all nite. so far so good at his mom house he is doing exactly that. but when it comes down to me I do not get much time with him, he come by for an hour or so than leave to go home. today we went out ate, before that we had a little arguement , but we looked over it. another thing is he still hanging out with his friends alot while he is on this end. I come last. I have not shown myself so available, i guess i got to try something different. he is still taking me for granted. he was the one saying he did not want to be without me. I should have kept ignoring him. I will this time. even though he just dtrop me back off at home and i told him i didnt want him to leave, but he left anyway and said he will be back after while, i said ok , but i know he saw i was a little down. I think i am just going to start going out meeting new people, he will never appreciate me. i am not going to wait around and let him hurt me again or play with my feelings. any suggestions ( very much needed).
TaraMaiden Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 What do you think NC is for? certainly, not this..... I did nc for 5 days. it worked he was right back in my life. NC means No Contact. No contact means you don't talk to him, you don't text him, you don't ring him, you don't see him, you don't e-mail him and you don't even ask about him. NC means No Contact. No Contact means you don't agree to let him talk to you, you don't read his texts, you don't answer if he rings you, you don't let him see you, you don't read his e-mails, and you don't even let him know anything about you, should he ask. No Contact is not to get him to come back. No Contact is to erase him from your life, forever. Now? Try again.
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